The answer is that you don't. The majority of women don't like being approached at the gym. You could eventually find a few that are open to it. Just be prepared to annoy about 95% of the ones you do flirt with. It also depends how you look and how you flirt.
Build over time. Start slow with a shared look. Figure out who is a regular. Make some small talk to develop a connection. Eventually after the workout see if they want to go get a drink. The key is to do this over time and not interrupt their zone.
Hey there, They Call Me The Siverfox, and I dont know if you are aware of this , But, umm, uh- I'm kind of a big deal around here if you didn't know, touch her lip with your index finger and whisper. Just dont, dont. turn and walk away from the poor thing
Don't bother them while they're exercising. Nobody likes being distracted. Best chance would be when they're leaving the gym. Dont stand outside the locker room waiting like a creep though lol. But after a gym session the likelihood of her being in a good mood is pretty high.
Dude, you don't. Best thing you can do is complement and talk about workout and nutrition with her trading information and advice. If she is on the bench with no spotter then ask her if she would like one. If she isn't interested, don't be offended, then go away, and don't make it a habbit, like some of the commenters said, they are there to workout, not flirt or be harassed.
Use a lightweight rubber coated dumbbell and a light glancing blow should do the trick... then just drag her out by the hair... it worked really well for early caveman. I am just joking by the way.. please don't try this in reality
The gym is for making gains and getting swole, not to hit on girls. No one likes a distraction especially when they're in the middle of sick pump. If you want to hit up girls do it after you finish working out, not in the middle of a rep/set
I've never hit on girls at the gym. That seems like their time to work out and be alone. If they show showed some interest, then of course, it would be OK.
I go to the gym to solely workout.. Sure I see some nice lookin females, and some even eye me.. But, I mean I would think ain't lookin for no dude to interrupt they workout just to talk to them.. Lol..
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I don't think gym is an ideal place to hit on people. Maybe you can try to talk to them in a more relaxed setting, for example if you see the same girl from the gym at the grocery store or something?
only approach when they look at you. if they blatantly look at you it meant they like you. Often women unconsciously look you in the face because they like you. Sometimes they do it on purpose to signal to you they like you. If they don't then they are not interested.
Simple make a approach of small talk for a couple of days then stop don't even look at her have a look on your face as if something is bothering you her mind will start turning and she'll start wondering if she did something wrong or if your okay woman work like that and curious it's a attention thing woman can't stand it she'll approach you
Wait until she’s not in the middle of her workout. If she goes to the water fountain or is resting between sets would be perfect.
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Start running on the treadmill slip dramatically whilst screaming and holding your knee. You’re bound to attract some female attention. Jk, just make lots of eye contact and show you’re interested.
Oh no dont do that, thats the worst thing ever when you catch someone looking at you multiple times and its just like "take a picture itll last longer"
Start with 'hi', or 'hello'. Most are there to work out. And most think 'hitting' on them is 'creepy'. Pretty much everything is creepy to girls your age.
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The answer is that you don't. The majority of women don't like being approached at the gym. You could eventually find a few that are open to it. Just be prepared to annoy about 95% of the ones you do flirt with. It also depends how you look and how you flirt.
Build over time. Start slow with a shared look. Figure out who is a regular. Make some small talk to develop a connection. Eventually after the workout see if they want to go get a drink. The key is to do this over time and not interrupt their zone.
Hey there, They Call Me The Siverfox, and I dont know if you are aware of this , But, umm, uh- I'm kind of a big deal around here if you didn't know, touch her lip with your index finger and whisper. Just dont, dont. turn and walk away from the poor thing
Don't bother them while they're exercising. Nobody likes being distracted. Best chance would be when they're leaving the gym. Dont stand outside the locker room waiting like a creep though lol.
But after a gym session the likelihood of her being in a good mood is pretty high.
Dude, you don't. Best thing you can do is complement and talk about workout and nutrition with her trading information and advice. If she is on the bench with no spotter then ask her if she would like one. If she isn't interested, don't be offended, then go away, and don't make it a habbit, like some of the commenters said, they are there to workout, not flirt or be harassed.
Hope you’re a 10 yourself otherwise you’re out of luck
Use a lightweight rubber coated dumbbell and a light glancing blow should do the trick... then just drag her out by the hair... it worked really well for early caveman.
I am just joking by the way.. please don't try this in reality
The gym is for making gains and getting swole, not to hit on girls. No one likes a distraction especially when they're in the middle of sick pump. If you want to hit up girls do it after you finish working out, not in the middle of a rep/set
I've never hit on girls at the gym. That seems like their time to work out and be alone. If they show showed some interest, then of course, it would be OK.
I go to the gym to solely workout.. Sure I see some nice lookin females, and some even eye me.. But, I mean I would think ain't lookin for no dude to interrupt they workout just to talk to them.. Lol..
I don't think gym is an ideal place to hit on people. Maybe you can try to talk to them in a more relaxed setting, for example if you see the same girl from the gym at the grocery store or something?
only approach when they look at you. if they blatantly look at you it meant they like you. Often women unconsciously look you in the face because they like you. Sometimes they do it on purpose to signal to you they like you. If they don't then they are not interested.
Simple make a approach of small talk for a couple of days then stop don't even look at her have a look on your face as if something is bothering you her mind will start turning and she'll start wondering if she did something wrong or if your okay woman work like that and curious it's a attention thing woman can't stand it she'll approach you
Praise her, I guess. There's really no awkward way to hit on a girl at the gym.
Wait until she’s not in the middle of her workout. If she goes to the water fountain or is resting between sets would be perfect.
Start running on the treadmill slip dramatically whilst screaming and holding your knee. You’re bound to attract some female attention. Jk, just make lots of eye contact and show you’re interested.
Oh no dont do that, thats the worst thing ever when you catch someone looking at you multiple times and its just like "take a picture itll last longer"
@KTsnugglez No it can work but obviously only if the other person finds you attractive too
You probably shouldn't or you should take things very slowly. As in, just start a normal conversation and see where that goes.
Don't. Most are there because they have a goal in mind and are focused on achieving the results they desire.
I wouldn't want to be hit on at the gym, I go to the gym with a task in mind not to have strangers trying to chat me up.
Start with 'hi', or 'hello'. Most are there to work out. And most think 'hitting' on them is 'creepy'. Pretty much everything is creepy to girls your age.
You are not wrong lol