most guys shouldn't put up with that. girls like that deserved to be cheated on
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Anonymous
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She probably likes someone else better. After getting with them & getting dumped or it not working out, she'll come to you. So in other words your just their back-up, second choice. In most cases
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Anonymous
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i like the attention and I normally ended up missing him, its all about the chase...i am still in love with my x and it has been back and forth feelings since 7th grade we are freshman in college now
Basically, girls who give the cold shoulder are "daddy's girls" who got all they wanted from Dad with the cold shoulder tactic, and Bro, if uu can't be her real dad, simply back off, cos she won't stop using the tactic.
Im asking the complete opposite of this! Hahaha I really don't get how a guy could act all interested then the next day wake up and decide he doesn't wanna contact the girl anymore!
No guys really like a challenge. So you have to give them that but continue to show interest. The problem with us women is that we think that we need to over do it. If a guy likes you, he likes you but don't lose your strong values (this doesn't not mean acting like a biatch) but just be yourself and do what you would do for anyone else. So no its not OK to jump through hoops and neglect yourself because of your guy. It comes off as needy when you are always available to a guy. Balance is key.
...Problem with us women is that we think that we need to over do it. I... don't lose your strong values
u THINK you need to overdo something? You recognize it is inappropriate and feel the need to do something you do not think you should do? How can you think this way yet have 'strong values
No one should not neglect their life. that's not advice for women.
Can you practice saying i, because many people with vaginas do not act absurd because thy like someone. It does not have to control girls or guys
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most guys shouldn't put up with that. girls like that deserved to be cheated on
She probably likes someone else better. After getting with them & getting dumped or it not working out, she'll come to you. So in other words your just their back-up, second choice. In most cases
i like the attention and I normally ended up missing him, its all about the chase...i am still in love with my x and it has been back and forth feelings since 7th grade we are freshman in college now
Girls don't like when the guys are too easy. They then believe that guys think the exact same way.
Basically, girls who give the cold shoulder are "daddy's girls" who got all they wanted from Dad with the cold shoulder tactic, and Bro, if uu can't be her real dad, simply back off, cos she won't stop using the tactic.
Im asking the complete opposite of this! Hahaha I really don't get how a guy could act all interested then the next day wake up and decide he doesn't wanna contact the girl anymore!
Maybe it's because he assumes that the girl isn't into him and gave up?
No guys really like a challenge. So you have to give them that but continue to show interest. The problem with us women is that we think that we need to over do it. If a guy likes you, he likes you but don't lose your strong values (this doesn't not mean acting like a biatch) but just be yourself and do what you would do for anyone else. So no its not OK to jump through hoops and neglect yourself because of your guy. It comes off as needy when you are always available to a guy. Balance is key.
RIGHT! I feel you on this one!
...Problem with us women is that we think that we need to over do it. I... don't lose your strong values
u THINK you need to overdo something? You recognize it is inappropriate and feel the need to do something you do not think you should do? How can you think this way yet have 'strong values
No one should not neglect their life. that's not advice for women.
Can you practice saying i, because many people with vaginas do not act absurd because thy like someone. It does not have to control girls or guys
Because now that he's calmed down & not all over us, he isn't as annoying.
means she just wants the attention you gave her
She likes the attention, not the guy
Dont want to seem all clingy and needy
oops that was just supposed to read Guys really like a challenge without the no in front lol
I agree