Is it the only way you could talk to her?
Do guys really need liquid courage to talk to a girl they like?
No. I'm from Texas and talking to women is so easy cuz they all love a man that can dance. And that's all there is to it. Ladies don't like a man who's unsure of himself. Confidence is key but even if you aren't confident just fake it til you make it. You can only wind up looking like a jackass and be embarrassed for a bit but don't let it hurt your pride. The clock keeps tickin and she isn't be the last one by a long shot. Stand tall and stay out your feelings when thing don't go through. Nut up or shut up. Never pulling the trigger makes for one boring life of what ifs and loneliness. If you can do it once, just once, and realize it ain't the end of the world you might learn something and grow a bit. Lol, I'm ranting. But if this guy you like just won't talk to you he might need a little nudge. Text him or something and say "You know you don't need to be scared. I don't bite." Or some playful bullshit and hopefully he acts like he's got a pair and takes the fucking hint. Or even give him a compliment. I've had girls that were so gorgeous it was slightly intimidating but I always would get "you have beautiful eyes, you know that" and I was immediately untouchable.
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It lowers people's inhibitions. Approaching a girl can be really difficult for a lot of guys, probably most. But most are able to do it without alcohol.
I've never met a guy who "needed" it to approach a girl he liked, but it might help some. However I have met guys who needed it for pick-ups at meat market kind of clubs.
For some people it has the opposite effect. Some people become more introverted and quiet when they drink.
Should not be the only way to pick up a chic that mean he gots a problem.
Now if u out with friends loosen up yes have a drink and turn up
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I don't know if they do but i know i do
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A couple of liquid pork chops can definitely help but if you go too far you will come off as a drunk.
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No they can also take good calcium vitamins too kept themselves relaxed😊oof that heathier. And don't forget they have to be brave to ask but being relaxed helps so much😊 nutrilite brand calcium oof kicks my ass almost knocks me out cold better than beer.
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A stiff drink or two can help steady the nerves. It shouldn't be "needed" per se, and it's easy to overdo it. But in moderation I see no harm in it. But if a guy feels need to get plastered just so he can numb himself enough to be able to approach a girl, then that's a sign he's got work to do on himself first.
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It depends upon the male, whether ot not he has a drink, but a rational consideration of the facts would show that an intoxicant that inhibited cognitive function would be a bad idea.
Males who resort to alcohol are being influenced by fear of rejection.
My advice is to stop caring.
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Guys need a strong liking. The approach would be proportional to the liking.
A guy need to know that a no from the girl need to be accepted as much as the expected yes to be.
Dont fear about yes or no.. just go for it.
Strategy is.. expect 90 percent chances of no.
10 percent yes..
You would lead a happy life.. haha - 1.5K opinions shared on Flirting topic.
Some seriously do! It may not be necessarily a fear of rejection. It could be as simple as a guy that is really introverted, is more social and “loose” in conversation after a cocktail or two (or three).
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Nope. I barely drink but always have a girl in my life in some form. I just talk to whoever and wherever. But then again, I'm a salesman. Approaching, and talking to strangers is literally my job, i approach hundreds of people per day. So maybe i'm an exception, definitely used to it.
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I don't drink so I don't know how green the grass is on the other side but breaking the ice is the only rough part. Smile, act natural and don't force things. Just look for respirocating behaviors to let you know if he/she likes you too.
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I can talk to any girl sober without feeling nervous and have been able to do so since I was maybe 14 years old. Younger than that I was a little more awkward about it but made my way around my shyness with certain girls I guess.
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No. In fact, I found I actually had more success with women when I approached them sober. I can only speak from my own experience, but if a guy feels like he needs a few drinks before he can approach a woman, he’s not comfortable with himself.
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It seems odd... But some guys do. I'm one of them. I can talk to girl in a conversation. But when it comes to how I feel towards them. I freeze up bad nd sound like a idiot.
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Well, We need something to stop basic logic.
Logic tells us to never speak to a female because they hold the power to embarrass you, ridicule you openly, and destroy your soul, and or your world, if they want.
So in order to speak with a female we need to be either a douche bag who doesn't give a shit about those things or we need something to stop the basic logic that tells us not too. -
nah I prefer to do it sober, if I like a girl chances are she's out of my league anyway though so I don't really bother too much, maybe just shoot my shot and I'm out
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Not really. Some of us are tuned to just be upfront. Most of us can screw when we do it for first time but eventually it becomes simpler.
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Liquid courage? No, definitely like. I'm a hell of a flirt so I talk to chicks I like all the time with no problems.
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I've had 2 girlfriends and alcohol has never touched my lips. Pfft, anyone who needs it to talk to a girl isn't ready for any kind of romantic involvement, no matter how lonely they may feel.
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Anyone who relies on alcohol for confidence are boring people to me. I’m only impressed by those who have this ability naturally and at any time of the day, with or without an exterior source
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Do girl's really need liquid courage or pills to talk to a guy they like?
When you understand that you will understand other way around since it's the same. -
Not the only way. But yes, pretty much. I have high anxiety.
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No, but I've found that women need it. Women seem to freak out over everything when guys approach them.
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