I want to ask this guy to prom but we don't really talk?

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i like this guy and we hardly talk we only talk like once in a great while I wanna ask him to prom how should I do it? is is weird when a girl asks a guy? please help

Remy87 · Accepted Answer

Okay so I've been plotting with my shy high school sister to do the exact same thing. Being as excited (intense?) as I am, we started planning in December to "increase contact." lol! But if you are starting now that is okay. I know you have a specific boy in mind, but it helps to have a couple back-up targets lined up - that way just in case it doesn't go through for whatever reason, you don't have to stress or be down about it. You're more apt to be "on to the next," onwards and upwards..

So, next time you are talking to this boy, you should say "you know what? I don't get to hang out with you as often as I'd like. I have a feeling you'd look really cute dressed up. You should go to prom with me." ::smile:: Whether he says yes or no, play it cool & be natural. If he says yes, say you're excited and that you're looking forward it (don't linger lol). If he says no, say "oh that's too bad, it would've been a lot of fun, we'll miss you!" (exit).

Just remember that nothing is awkward if you don't allow it to be. Just have confidence like you do this errday. Best of luck babes. <3

retrowreck · Accepted Answer

you should probably start talking to him a bit more, or even giving him a smile when you see him. just so he feels more comfortable and you're not a total stranger when you ask him to prom

good luck, I hope everything works out!:)

defytraditiongirl · Accepted Answer

aren't you a bit too old for prom? it says you are 25

Phoenix52 · Accepted Answer

Approach him, have small talk for a minute or two.

Then say calmly "I'd like to go to prom with you".

He'll be flattered and shocked, if he likes you.

If he doesn't like you, he'll let you down easy with an excuse or just say 'No'.

Being direct and assertive will save you time. If he doesn't want to go with ya, find other guys. HOWEVER, you could hand him your number and say 'if you change your mind, let me know'.

Don't beat around the bush with some indirect methods. There's just no time to waste.

Blinky · Accepted Answer

Not sure exactly in this case but in my case (my friend asked me to her prom we talk maybe once a week if that anymore) not to mention she lives about 200 miles from me. She just plain out asked me to her prom, and I said yes. So in May I'm traveling about 250 miles for the weekend to go to her prom. Just be straight up honest.

Raider_Z · Answer

Write on a piece of paper, "Hey Handsome! I want you to be my prom date..." then put in inside a gum wrapper. There is a time and a place to dress sexy, and I think this qualifies. Just offer him a piece of gum.

lawhsia · Answer

Straight up ask him to ask you to prom the next time you see him. Any later and you risk not giving him enough time to prepare or him asking someone else.

TylerMMA · Answer

Its not weird at all for a girl to ask a guy.  Especially if he doesn't know anyone in particular he wants to go with.

sylar · Answer

exactly what prom are you going to that allows 26 year old women into it?

oxidizer235 · Answer

how did the school system allow some chick in the 25-29 age range to stay in HS... and date HS seniors... LOL

MrReal · Answer

"I was wondering if you weren't too busy or if you didn't make plans already we could go to the prom"

OK:"Great really looking forward to it :)'

REJECTION:" Alright then bye :)"

-Thats how I would say it

Anonymous · Answer

It's not weird if a girl asks a guy to prom. HOWEVER. . . It IS weird when a 26 year old asks a guy to prom! :P

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