Im competing for my BF's attention with his sister?

[fall4you]

He's three years older than her and they act like best friends. I started dating him when he was a junior in college and she was a senior in h.s. 3 hours away.. everything was great.. they never really talked when they were apart. now she's going to the same college and majoring in the same major as him. he helped her do her schedule he eats lunch with her, and they were hanging out a lot too... I finally told him he needed to let her learn these things on her own its part of growing up. He texts with her more than I. ANDDD they just went on spring break together with some of her friends. He loves me but the competition is endless. On top of it.. my boyfriend hurt his shoulder last year and was given painkillers. he never used them and she used some and said she was allergic to codene. now all of a sudden her toe may be broken and she asked to have his lortab! I'm offended he gave her some because she asked. he wants to be a doctor and he just did that! I was pissed. she should see a doctor and how about first take a damn antiinflammatory and advil or something lets go to the strong hardcore opiates over a toe. HE IS AGAINST DRUGS AND ALCOHOL but if she says jump he jumps!

[viva_glow]

Sounds like they have a really strong bond. I know the feeling, cause I'm a twin. And she always comes before anyone, even an awesome boyfriend.

I hate to break it to you, but there's no problem with them. The issue lies with you. You need to get past the jealousy and accept their closeness because I can promise you it won't change. It doesn't work that way. And if you should ever let on to having an issue with this, you could get your heart broken and thrown out the window. Seriously. Why does it bother you so much anyway?

Are you maybe paying too much attention to your boyfriend? Maybe you need to spend more time with friends and other people and strengthen the bonds you have with others. Is it bothering you because underneath it all they have something you don't? Cause then you do have to focus less on him, and more on you and the rest of your life. You're probably too absorbed in his stuff to think about your own. So go live your life and find that inner peace within <3

[fall4you]

Ugh, I do live my life. He's the only boy and she's the only girl of their family. I'm one of 6. Last year I finally met someone I could get more attention from than I ever had in my entire life and now I have to share it again, and I don't think I like that. Even my mom gives my boyfriend more attention than she gives me... she likes him. so I guess I'm jealous of the attention he receives but doesn't share.

[viva_glow]

Hmm.

I'm sorry, I honestly can't think of decent advice for this. Maybe it's just a matter of spending more personal time with your boyfriend, just you two?

[Anonymous]

You want a sure fire way to win his attention over his sister?

Blow him. Give him a really, really great blow job. No way does he think about his sister over you then!

[CuriousEddie]

I was going to reply, but I see I came across an older question, for six months again... has the situation changed at all?

[fall4you]

yeah we broke up... it ended it badly...

[CuriousEddie]

I'm sorry to hear that... was it because of this?

[fall4you]

mostly.. it was a lot of weight.. it officially ended in August. he texts and calls everyday saying he wants me back but I can't deal with his sister.. and the fact that he drinks now and cheated... all because of her... I don't mind drinking but drinking when you were against it all because she got you into it is not OK. that should have been an individual desicion

[CuriousEddie]

I'm sorry to hear that, although it sounds like he wasn't that great of a catch. And he calls every day since August? Wow... if only he paid that much attention to you when you were together!