A guy who attends my gym, came in with another guy and was heading towards the spin bike in front of me... more below?

[TrulyPink28]

He stopped in his tracks when he saw me & I overheard him say to his friend... that's the girl. This is months after the 1st time we crossed paths, he was smiling at me when he saw me & came beside me on the treadmill. I didn't react. He then moved treadmills after 30 mins of no chat. I'm actually rather sweet and friendly but wasn't going to start approaching him when he could have said more... Why is he still talking about me months later haha

[Avicenna]

You must be hot as well as in great shape

[Tunasub]

Ask him.

[TrulyPink28]

Don't want to make the 1st move

[Tunasub]

Well now if you don't make the move and he just keeps talking to his friend and not you, how will you ever get the answer that you seek?

[TrulyPink28]

He's a man, does he not want to talk?

[Tunasub]

Maybe he is shy and doesn't want to make the first move...

[TrulyPink28]

He has a girlfriend... he's a public figure

[Tunasub]

Hmmmm we'll that changes everything... maybe you could just start a general conversation just to see where he is with the situation? Know what I mean?

[TrulyPink28]

Hmmm... so by approaching him I will join all the women you throw themselves at him, rrrriiight

[Tunasub]

No... not at all. You won't be throwing yourself at him (unless that's what you want to do) you would just be stroking up conversation... he may just like the fact that you just want to talk and not be one of those women throwing themselves at him... Just be yourself...

[TrulyPink28]

Ha... as mentioned, he said to his friend... that's the girl. Thing is, why be that way if several months later, haven't said anything to him haha

[Tunasub]

This is really got you going huh? Go through his friend ask him.. he could be interested and don't want to put it out there for fear it may get out that he is interested while he has a girlfriend... or you could just do your thing and let it be his loss for being slow about things...

[TrulyPink28]

Nah. I'm curious only. Have been asked out by a number of guys but I'm very selective 😂

[Tunasub]

As well you should be... I think I would be curious too..

[TrulyPink28]

I don't talk with people at the gym generally... except for the PT at my HIIT and run class. He has been onto me from the get go. Don't hear him encouraging others. Haha

[Tunasub]

Well damn... don't you have it going on... I'm sure you're a lovely woman...😉

[Tunasub]

by the way I sent you a follow request a while ago... what's up with that?

[TrulyPink28]

Follow up request? Hadn't looked. Apologies

[Tunasub]

Follow request...

[Tunasub]

Just thought I'd ask... see how that works...😜😂🤣😂😜

[TrulyPink28]

The PT is married though... I went away for a couple of months and when I got back, during a workout, he asked me during weight training with others... where had I gone?😂 Answered with ' oh everywhere!'

[Tunasub]

Always leave them guessing... you know how to do it... lol

[TrulyPink28]

Exactly...😂

[TrulyPink28]

He didn't know what to say afterwards. Has been complimenting my progress every week though haha

[Tunasub]

Lol... but what if it's you that's left guessing?

[Tunasub]

Flirt!

[TrulyPink28]

Like public figure guy? What I know is that a man will eventually let me know if he wants something meaningful...

[Tunasub]

So do you always wait for the man... what if what you know is wrong at that time?

[TrulyPink28]

Yes, I've had them attempt at pushing boundaries however believe it's best that they make it happen. All other excuses are their problem!😂

[Tunasub]

You have never approached a man with regard to something meaningful? Ever?

[Tunasub]

If no. Why not?

[TrulyPink28]

I've approached on a few occasions when I was 'misinformed' and felt very uncomfortable. One was a guy who was cheating on his partner who was the mother of infant and another was/is suspect. He said he hadn't been on the dating scene since his broken engagement however still comes around me when I'm speaking with other men🤦🏻‍♀️... we just carry on. Whatever he's doing, let him do him...

[TrulyPink28]

I only discovered that guy who was cheating wouldn't admit that he was still with the girl. I left for a year as things got out of hand... he was seeking BDSM acts during work hours in my work office😬. Had to draw the line...

[Tunasub]

Ahhh... so you are single at the present time and happy with being that way? I can dig it... I'm the same way.

[TrulyPink28]

Yeah, exploring my own world for awhile...🥰

[Tunasub]

Oh damn... but other activities led up to the BDSM acts I your office? You freaky ass woman... lol nice.

[Tunasub]

I can truly understand that. It's good to be by yourself at times learn to enjoy being without someone's company or being in a relationship.

[TrulyPink28]

I'm innocent but 'tool-less' situations occurred twice alongside sextexting. Something I would not do again! Each time it happened, he'd go silent for at least 3-4 months and then resurface...

[TrulyPink28]

I'm be healthier for the next one. Haven't dated in awhile too but will eventually again...

[Tunasub]

I once knew a innocent woman... biggest freak I was ever with... you wouldn't know it to look at her...

[TrulyPink28]

Don't judge a book by its cover:)

[Tunasub]

Dating is fucking exhausting... I stopped recently. I'm good for now... lol

[Tunasub]

I did and all I can say is..."I wonder where she is these days?" 😂🤣😂

[TrulyPink28]

You men always go back... lol

[TrulyPink28]

* come back

[Tunasub]

It was more of a joke than anything... that was just a short fling thing. The way she is is not who I want to be with

[Tunasub]

I don't come back once it's done it's done...

[TrulyPink28]

What way is she? Haha...

[Tunasub]

She can't be with one person...

[TrulyPink28]

Ooooooh... thing is, all we need is one. But anyway, got to make a move. Have a great day!

[Tunasub]

Facts... be good and you have a great day as well.