Pro tip. Take what the majority of pinks say... and do the complete opposite. And by the way, none of those girls have a reason to want to spend any time with you, unless they are already attracted, or you've built it in some way.
Usually showing some personality first helps. Tripping, tell a joke, follow conversation, scream your head off, punch the wall, punch the floor, play air guitar! Do ANYTHING out of the norm and make it a joke. That is theater and people eat it up.
We would need more information about her, but from what you've said, I would find a way to get in her circles, then, once she knows you exist, I would go for it!
I'd be flattered, yet being an introvert I'f prefer is he first tried to be "familiar" to me. By that I mean that previously either at a class or a club or somewhere we have made ye contact or he said hello, etc.
Depends on the girl. But for me, I would say no. Lol. Coz first I don't go out with people I don't know. Second, even if I know u, asking it directly would be too overwhelming.
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Straight to the point only worked the times I use to flash my dick on cam. Not always but it worked.
Offline is obviously far different. Even if you are only looking for a fling there is a series of steps you need to take. It will depend on your social skills.
Make a quick convo first, then mention going out sometime, then get her contact info. When you have free time in your schedule , contact her and make plans to go out. 👌🏾
Tried both ways and they all end the same way. REJECTION, and nothing more I could offer a blood sacrifice to Satan or pray to whatever god exists out there and I couldn't get a woman to take interest in me not even to save my life
I would guess that girls would prefer you try to get to know them a bit before asking them out.
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Well it depends on the girl.
The average one with self-respect/standards would prefer to get to know you - so that means something of a conversation - before getting straight to the point. The average one with low self-respect/standards would be more for straight to the point. It's that simple & why one girl has standards & the other'll screw anyone good looking.
Be more specific in your questions. Girls would only prefer guys to get to the point if she knows him. Cold approaches rarely work if you two don't know each other.
To hell with what they think, if they even know what they think. You don't have time to beat around the bush with every girl on campus. Be precise and save time.
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Pro tip. Take what the majority of pinks say... and do the complete opposite. And by the way, none of those girls have a reason to want to spend any time with you, unless they are already attracted, or you've built it in some way.
Usually showing some personality first helps. Tripping, tell a joke, follow conversation, scream your head off, punch the wall, punch the floor, play air guitar! Do ANYTHING out of the norm and make it a joke. That is theater and people eat it up.
Of course not. Talk to them and get to know them first.
or save your precious time and don't talk to them at all unless they're direct with you
I personally like a guy who is straight up with me.
We would need more information about her, but from what you've said, I would find a way to get in her circles, then, once she knows you exist, I would go for it!
I'd be flattered, yet being an introvert I'f prefer is he first tried to be "familiar" to me. By that I mean that previously either at a class or a club or somewhere we have made ye contact or he said hello, etc.
Depends on the girl. But for me, I would say no. Lol. Coz first I don't go out with people I don't know. Second, even if I know u, asking it directly would be too overwhelming.
Straight to the point only worked the times I use to flash my dick on cam. Not always but it worked.
Offline is obviously far different. Even if you are only looking for a fling there is a series of steps you need to take. It will depend on your social skills.
Yes, they do... as long as the guy in question is attractive. If not, they feel weirded out and like he's a creep.
Bear in mind-- exact same behavior from the guy, yet two different reactions from the female.
Make a quick convo first, then mention going out sometime, then get her contact info. When you have free time in your schedule , contact her and make plans to go out. 👌🏾
Sometimes they do. Its a lot more about what you say and how it is said, even before you speak a word.
Tried both ways and they all end the same way. REJECTION, and nothing more I could offer a blood sacrifice to Satan or pray to whatever god exists out there and I couldn't get a woman to take interest in me not even to save my life
In short. The earlier the relationship is defined, the better, no rush though.
Getting straight to the point is good, helps to stop others from overthinking which may result in misunderstandings.
Just do it !
If by straight you mean “strap on” and point, you mean by bum then yes I like it.
I would guess that girls would prefer you try to get to know them a bit before asking them out.
Well it depends on the girl.
The average one with self-respect/standards would prefer to get to know you - so that means something of a conversation - before getting straight to the point. The average one with low self-respect/standards would be more for straight to the point. It's that simple & why one girl has standards & the other'll screw anyone good looking.
Be more specific in your questions. Girls would only prefer guys to get to the point if she knows him. Cold approaches rarely work if you two don't know each other.
To hell with what they think, if they even know what they think. You don't have time to beat around the bush with every girl on campus. Be precise and save time.
I would hope that it would work in both directions, that both guys and gals would like anyone who gets right to the point!