I wish things were THAT clear to me i don't flirt with purpose at first all i know is you iz attractive to me and i want to be in your company and flirt, although i won't unless it's safe to and you're going to return the favour, i'll just start kinda talking to you and then see what vibes you're sending out although if you're TOO eager and clingy straight away that's a red flag to me and definitely not attractive lol.
I'm sensitive too i don't like being messed about where you're hot then suddenly cold cos if i flirt I FREAKING FLIRT kay? lol there's no middle for me i either like you or don't like you and i don't flirt or i want to mingle with what you're bringin' lol just please don't play me or hurt me. I'm choosy as it is with whoever i want to have as my company but most just can't handle the real heat going on underneath that icy exterior so i gotta be careful, it's a far cry for me to go like "He is the one" straight away if i i can't see you're going to put in the work to keep any faith i have in you.
I’m mainly feeding off of a vibe or I could sometimes just be my raw attraction to them. Either way I want their undivided attention and I want to feel in complete control of them for a few minutes. Once I have them I either get bored or horny. No matter the outcome, I leave them alone and return to the regularly scheduled program of whatever tf I was doing before.
If im hardcore flirting with someone (and not just complimenting because there is a difference), then my intentions are clear. I am infatuated with the woman I am flirting with. I want to be with that woman and make every day of her life seem like a romance. Because, not a lot of people know this about me, but I am a courter. Straight up gentleman. I go out of my way (even on my worst days) to let my lady know that she is one of a kind and extremely treasured. And if im infatuated enough, and she feels the same way back, then not only am i a gentleman but i can be very, very naughty in a sensual way to only her. But from a place of respect and pure attraction.
Lol. Its just how i am. Why waste time trying harder than u have to if you aren't actually infatuated with her? With me it gets to the point where i sometimes wonder if im under a love spell.
I kinda prefer it too... its more... sensual and unbinding. Like if im in a relationship with the person im hardcore flirting with, i tell her everything she does to me and how she turns me on and then also let her know what i want to do to her to get her off and squirming as well as using my gift of writing and the English language (been writing music for over 16 years now) to serenade her in ways normal guys just wouldn't know how. Like almost romance novel serenades... but better
I like to see her blushing and laughing. When I used to be cashier I once flirted with an attractive woman in her 50s so hard she was blushing, and next time she came in she showed up with her husband so I could meet him. Third time after that she came back through my line and I said, "I see you came armed and dangerous last time." She laughed and said it wasn't like that at all, that she just wanted her husband to meet the guy who flattered her so much.
To this day I look back and wonder how the hell did I not get fired for that lol.
If I flirt with somebody - its because I think they would make me a happy partner in life - I see some social or intellectual quality in them I want to take a hold of and add to my life
Being friendly and being flirty see not the same lol I act, behave the same talking to anyone, make it female. And definitely ain't flirting with females. I'm Strictly dickly🤣
@Brainsbeforebeauty Nice that you are, well, you know! But 'flirting' just a little? Come on! Most people do it, but not hardcore, and expecting anything! Just some playful conversation, and maybe a suggestive comment, to get a smile from a bored Target checker that makes you stop and think, if only. . . :) :)
@JackSmy oh no I don't flirt in public. I try to avoid attention. I'm really not into flirting. Not everyone is. Or maybe everyone but me is. I'll notice an attractive man, but flirt just to flirt, nah just not me
sure @Brainsbeforebeauty... sure, whatever you say... so much more the easier to FRIENDZONE bein so friendly... i regret nothing... but you probly right anyhow
@LEADFOOTboi oh boo lol and shhh don't say the S word. That was like a swear word in my house. We don't say that word aloud in Wisconsin. So now if I wake up to snow, I know who's to blame for that 👁️👁️
OH NOOOOOO... i'm sorry @Brainsbeforebeauty... i didn't mean to curse your state... how do i undo this? uhh... i'll use a different curse... 100+ DEGREE HIGHS IN YOUR AREA, STAY INSIDE
i havn't seen it @Brainsbeforebeauty... so i don't really know where it is... it's kinda like maybe it is and maybe it's not... kinda like drunk drivers maybe... it might be coming, maybe not
@LEADFOOTboi just cuz you don't see something personally don't mean it ain't real. I know people that have lost people to Corona Virus just cuz I personally haven't doesn't make it less real
what i said was I don't know if its there... @Brainsbeforebeauty... like I don't know if there's TP either, but it could be there or here or the other place...
no no no @Brainsbeforebeauty... don't you dare... your kindness and FRIENDSHIP is more than enough to encourage me to stay straight and true... plus my momma's gonna kiiiiilll me
she still don't know i was raiding for a while... but i know she gonna find out some time... I don't know how tho... Q _ Q or maybe she already knows and she waiting tilll i relax... she gonna say "OH YOU THINK I FORGOT ABOUT ______"
@LEADFOOTboi 🤣🤣 yeah sorry friendzone don't pay the bills.. So if you can't cough it up... Feel I need to inform your momma of your recent activities 🤷🏼♀️
Very untrue, old man! I just had my annual physical and I am extremely healthy, with no chronic conditions other than seasonal allergies. No high BP, no diabetes, no serious conditions at all.
I can be generally flirty with people and most of the time it's just joking around and being playful. However, if it is hardcore flirting then it is done with intent for something to eventuate from it. No one hardcore flirts just for shits and giggles. At least I wouldn't.
I'd say a mix of everything you have up there, but mostly it makes me feel better about myself. More confident, funnier, sexier, you never know what will come out of flirting with someone, good times, nothing, humping with a fierce desperation, other rewards.
You never know, but in that moment, you can know you're enjoying yourself and just feel good about that :)
Whenever I "try" my social awkwardness slaps her with words that make no sense... My nervous laugh which a few found adorable to my horror or just me saying somt I heard Brad say and getting my ass handed to me, so I just do and try to not think. When it works I am like "I can't believe this is happening" same thought goes through brain every time I have sex with a new person lol.
For me it's the last two choices together. I think flirting is a skill that is nice to pocess and it does inflate my ego when the girl I'm flirting with likes it and flirts back. I'm not always looking for a wife but I wouldn't mind flirting to lead to more down the line. But mostly I have nothing but good intentions so i see no harm in it
Depends on who it is most of the times it just to smile and break up the day ,, maybe to be a smart ass , but there has been times where they don't believe in themselfs and I show them they can do it then there's times like on line where I just want to make it about her and give her the best orgasm ever then there's times where they have made me totally fall for them ,,, with all the bullshit going on in this world its nice just to make some one feel loved
For me they vary, but typically I don't have any intentions. I've pointed this out in some other opinions that there are plenty of guys who do not always know what their intentions are right away. This completely short circuits you girls because you demand to know intentions way too soon, and guys feel unnecessary pressure.
I disagree, you don't have to know to flirt. Lots of times it's a big tool for getting to know someone. I'm never going to know my intentions without knowing their personality first.
If I am hardcore flirting , it pretty much means I want her in my arms I want her to want me like I want her , sending her signals that pretty much say hey look at me like I am looking at you , let’s get lost in each other and take the chance of being together , let’s rip each other’s clothes off and rock each other’s world , I wouldn’t flirt with a girl without the intentions of wanting her
I flirt with everybody it doesn't matter is let me take that back I flirt with all the ladies it doesn't matter if I know I'm not author of the bank teller the gas station attendant makes them feel good about themselves son h*** if I to made somebody smile why not if I get lucky then that's just a bonus but I don't get very low
Hardcore flirting means I feel confident and feel i am the alpha in the situation. It also is high risk and i feel there is little downside to rejection... i just want sex. Im horny asf. And i want sex.
The other day I said "i bet your pussy is an outie. Like a belly button. Your labia lips are elongated out in a beautiful way."
Then she fucked me... I was correct. It was an outie.
Oh gosh not the alpha talk. Lucky she was an outtie cause i’d feel disgusted and offended if someone assumed i had that 🤣 i mean did you say that cause she had a kid or something
No. This was the other girl. I told her that i could guess things. I guess her bra size correct too. I think I also said she looked like a "sexy trans woman". I swear to god. Women have sex with me for the oddest things.
She is bisexual. So we were having a conversation about sex and sexuality. I asked her if my metrosexual look made me seem bisexual or gay. She said I had a very masculine and dominant energy. I think i should have said she looks more "androgynous".
I flirt usually as practice for when I want to hit on a girl I actually know to some extent and think I may have a chance with. The girl I flirt with would genuinely be someone I find attractive but typically they are someone I think I have no chance with or who I don't intend to ask out. But getting to see a pretty girl smile or blush because of something I said or did makes me feel a tad accomplished.
If we're talking sexual flirtation, then C. The others don't really apply? If I flirt in a way that isn't sexual (and even when it is, really), it's because I want to get to know that person on a more personal level. To see if something could come of it.
It's my little hobby to see how good I can flirt with someone. It's just to boost my confidence. It wouldn't mean much unless I really really liked her and knew her personally. Only then would I consider dating and more. Otherwise, it's just harmless fun.
Most of the time it is because I am looking for something long term. I have had the flings, the one night stands an the it is just sex booty calls but when I go all out and flirt it is because they are someone I want to spend everyday with.
I'm very nice, happy, with lots of on and off eye contact, and smiles a lot only with someone that I like. Does that count as flirting? I'm so bad at flirting🤦🏾♀️ the only intention I have is to try to show that I like him.
😅 oh okay. And I don't do that. I don't want to give off a creepy vibe. Plus, that guy did the same signs back to me but now he stopped for the last 3 weeks😩.
This is the co-worker that I like. I only see him on Saturdays. He sends too many mixed signals. Plus, I don't even know if he really liked me or he was just being very nice.
I usually just do it for fun, it makes me feel good. I know it’s bad to lead people on, but if you guys are flirting a lot but in a casual way, it’s perfect.
If I'm hardcore flirting I'm most likely trying to get some but sometimes it can be just because I'm in a good mood and feeling good and think you're looking good but not necessarily trying to get any just saying your hot and hello
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