After a bad marriage, a horrible financial year, death of my best friend I went out with a huge group of friends and met someone. I knew he was younger than me but I swear I wasn't looking for a relationship. I hated sex with the ex and it was most of our arguments. Deep down I felt it wasn't sex I hated just him, and when I met this younger guy I wanted to see if I could, if I still had it , it had been so long since I had been with another man, honestly, I wanted to use him to "get back in the saddle" again so to speak! I know a lot of people say they don't look their age but I really don't, and I have always been accused of being immature however, there is 11 year age difference. Nothing happened the first night, but we exchanged numbers, I gave myself a week to try to have sex after that my children would be back from visiting their father. Out of all the 27 year olds I meet I had to meet the one who wasn't one night stand material. He asked me out on a walk, and caught me off guard when he asked me my age, thinking this wouldn't go anywhere I said 33 (shaved off 5 yrs). We have now been together 2 years and I still haven't told him. I am embarrassed, scared, hesitant, but I swear I didn't do it deliberately, I really NEVER thought we'd end up together never mind 2 yrs. He does suspect, I know he knows I am not 35 but I just turned 40 and he just turned 29 and it didn't seem that bad when I was technically still in my 30's but just the number 40 I think it would REALLY freak him out but its been 2 years how do you bring that up now? And we are so good together, but I honestly think it would bother him. ADVICE?
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