I accidentally matched with a co worker on a dating site. What should I do?

[Mistymittens324]

I have a crush on this guy i work with. I was swiping on tinder and his profile showed up. Im super shy so i was gonna swipe left but scrolled through his pictures and wanted to show my bestfriend my crush. I accidentally swiped right and panicked so i turned off my cards so no one could see me for about 3 weeks. I turned them back on and he ended up swiping right on me. I was so nervous and today at work we had our usual small talk but i was nervous. He never messaged me though. The last few days he hasn't mentioned anything but weve engaged in a bit more small talk.

Does this mean he likes me back or is even interested in me?

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Faith works in mysterious ways & as for your co worker on a dating site maybe it was meant to happen or maybe you two were due to cross paths. Now what you should do is ask your other co workers if the guy is single & get the scoop on him before you go on a date with him.

[GAGSucksBalls1]

Nothing ever gets done, if you don't work on it. You're just showing him you like him, and it sounds like he feels the same.

I don't recommend dating coworkers though. You need to quit or he needs to quit or both of you need to quit, in order to date

[Vkl37]

You don't necessarily need to quit unless your company forbids coworkers from dating. You never know when your going to meet your partner; if you had to quit everytime you were interested in a coworker good luck keeping a job.

[CrazyGirl2]

I mean you are older than I, so maybe you know better? But I would imagine that dating someone you work could be a nightmare! But especially if the relationship ends badly!

[Anonymous]

He knows you’re embarrassed so he’s not bringing it up. I don’t know why you’re shy about it. Tinder is pretty well known and crossing paths is bound to happen.

[Quiet_Wanderer]

I don't think any ones going to be able to give you good advice on this one. There Re simply too many variables. You should trust your intuition and instincts on this one and maybe take a risk.

[Thenameless1]

I personally see no harm in dating a coworker, if you like somebody you should go for it. It really should not matter where you are so don’t let these loners discourage you. If he doesn’t know you like him you should let him know, worse case he says no.

[Fuego_exe]

The only way out is to forcefully tie the man to a chair and make clear that you 2 won't ever speak about this ever again.

plant some spies around the office so he won't ever say a thing.

Make sure you collect some dirt on the guy so that way you can blackmail him in case he tries to tell anyone about it.

That will keep them from ever talking about it. You are welcome.

[rustymopp]

I would think he's interested, but possibly shy, or anxious about how you'd react if he asked you out

[Mistymittens324]

We dont know eachother well he only started a few months back. Some co workers go for wings and he was going so I planned to go that time to hopefully sit beside him. Things got shut down so once things open up im hoping this wing night will happen

[Anonymous]

Eyeroll.

So when he doesn't message you, that's it? You resign and it's game over?

But when you're in the exact same position and you don't message him... it means what?

[prakhindev92]

I advise you not to date a co worker , it is gonna ruin your relation ship and work and life , from experience

[Desconhecida]

That's kinda obvious..

[ayomanwya]

Be professional and don’t date people that you work with 🤷‍♂️

[thrombis]

Keep romance out of work.

[Cynicaldreamer]

Best comment right here. Seriously, don't date coworkers: it never ends well.

[Gwenhwyfar]

I think he’s interested. Message him.

[sheikalana]

Unmatch him if it was accidental.

[bulletbob555]

Its your crush so go for it

[Agem123]

Message him, lol

[Anonymous]

Women 🙄🙄🙄

[Wewladdy]

Right lmao