Do you get pursued more or rejected more?

[jennifer_bloom]

I get pursued more

I get rejected more

Same / Both

[lucas262]

Other day I asked out a woman, she took a look through mu Instagram and thats all it took.

Another woman who happened to be friends with another woman who hates me removed me from Instagram.

I dont date or ask out people at the gym, at work, or any place I'd really like to go back to and it not be awkward.

I get looks at most but iv never once had a woman peruse me. It's not a woman thing, but iv never had a woman give me hints and if she did I'm too obtuse to notice.

I'm comfortable with rejection now, last time I tried for a date sex was never on my mind I wanted some more practice with women she liked books I said I'd take her to a book store and get her a coffee. But she was a friend of a friend who I'd yet to meet so that explains that.

[kellytheman]

In said both I get a good happy medium because I don't get rejected much but I also don't get prused either. I am usually on the hunt and I might get rejected by 1 or 2 girls but mostly because they are just having a girls night or they are already with somebody.

[kellytheman]

Thanks for the like and MHO

[Cynicaldreamer]

Pursued... what's that mean? Haha.

I'm rejected- even when I actively pursue men. I honestly cannot recall the last time a guy actively pursued, or showed interest in me if that says anything. So I don't even bother anymore; I'm just enjoying the single life :)

[DaisyAimi]

I get pursued more by men that directly want to date me based on my looks. I usually reject them because for me it’s not attractive at all... them only talking about my appearance. So mostly the guys i’ve dated are the ones I pursued first or it just grew at the same time. Since I prefer having a connection first before dating

[_no_one_]

Pursued or both the same ig cuz i always was too lazy or shy to ask someone out, so i really didn't try in cases where i wasn't much sure about the outcome. Ig I've been rejected only twice one of them wasn't even something cuz it wasn't a direct approach and rejection and was done under peer pressure lol.

[ZackBan]

Both have happened but are rare occurrences.

I would say I have pretty good success ratio with women but I'm not often pursued.
Although I am being pursued right now and feels good for a change.

[hellionthesagereborn]

I get pursued and then the woman who does the pursueing flakes on me i. e. rejects me despite pursuing me. I will never understand women (this has happened a couple of times now).

[Anonymous]

I got rejected more in the sense that most guys I liked never reciprocated feelings or wanted to try dating. Some of the reason were either because physical appearance (I wasn't as cute as my friends or whatever), they were intimidated by me, or they felt I was too ambitious and driven... which I never thought was a bad thing

[exitseven]

I used to get rejected a lot. Then I got married and I actually had a couple of women ask me out. One of them was pretty hot , too.

[Darknut]

Definitely rejected! Women don't like introverted men. I once in earnest tried asking a woman on a date only to be told (didn't even know her well just met a few times, apparently mind already made up) that all guys are the same even the quiet ones you just have better game than the louder ones.

[BlackFire1]

Rejected More here. I honestly don't know why, but then again I've never brought up the idea of dating/relationships with any women since college and I'm a terrible flirt. It's been at least five years since I've brought it up to any woman so I'm basing this largely on past experience.

[bellybuttonlint]

Not surprised with the girls being pursued more. That's just a guy's nature. And guys will go after anything.

But no one hits on me and I hit on no one. Win/win.

[Marhaban-1]

I kind of naturally play hard to get without thinking about it

[CallmeTheKnight]

I honestly don't. Learned that pursuing is no longer necessary

[just_a_potato]

I get pursued more than rejected, because I refuse to go out and have the chance of getting rejected. They either come to me or I die alone because my heart is frail. 😂😂😂

[Red_Arrow]

I have no idea what you look like, but I really like the type of person you seem from the things you say on here. I think that your personality attracts many guys. And your heart is a wonderful heart. I think many guys are interested in you that you do not even know about yet.

[just_a_potato]

@Red_Arrow I like to think I'm attractive enough to get a boyfriend now if I wanted to but unattractive enough that I wouldn't be anyone's first choice 😂 that is one of the kindest thing someone has said to me in awhile. Thank you dear. 💜

[Red_Arrow]

If you are attractive enough to get a boyfriend, then I think you are attractive enough to be many guys first choice. As I said, based on other things, I find you very attractive. And you are very welcome. Anytime i can be of help...
Hugs...

[just_a_potato]

I will try not to disappoint your adorable interest in me, as I am quite the people pleaser hahha. Hopefully others feel that way too. 😁

[Red_Arrow]

I am sure many others think so, too. Please message me. I have a quick question for you.

[Shihab91]

I got rejected twice, 3 girls showed interests , 1 girlfriend

[Cowboy6666]

Nowadays I rarely am asked out lol
though I am single

[Curmudgeon]

And the lopsided gender ratios between answering "pursued" and answering "rejected" are telling...

[IsoUser]

Well I personally think that a mouthwatering mountain girl like yourself. Might have some advantages I do like being taken advantage of on Occasion ;O

[Shy_Steve]

I don't know, That's the problem I think.
I don't really know when a Girl likes me and i don't Approach anyone because I'm Shy so that's why I'm Single.

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Pursued mostly. In most cases it isn't desired.

[TacosRAwesome]

I don't get rejected because I dont really pursue anyone but I don't get pursued much either.

[ChrisMaster69]

Bit of both.
depends where I am what doing

[WalkingBassist]

I haven't been on a date since 2011. That's the year I met my wife. We were divorced by 2017, and I haven't felt like dating anyone yet.

[Joshua0213]

I've never been either of them, nobody's ever pursued me but I've never been rejected either.

[grega239]

Rejected obviously.
Never been pursued... obviously

[Texasguy99]

Probably a mixture. But the people I’m pursued by I’m not really interested in

[blondfrog]

Rejected more, but I am a guy so that's normal.

[scott04sa22]

I get rejected 95% of the time

[Jamie05rhs]

I don't know. It's pretty even.

[Paolaa988]

Both sadly😞

[legalboxers]

rejected.. but also I stopped looking.. and caring

[WowwGirl]

I've been lucky

[Avocadorable]

Option A.

[haooy]

I haven't actually asked someone so none.

[Paulychicago10]

B. But because I'm usually short with females

[Anonymous]

Quite obvious if you're a guy

[scooogy]

Pursued.

[PaynefulPleasures]

It depends ✌️

[JesseJayNeak]

Rejected. Time and time again

[Anonymous]

I have been rejected more

[Aimée__LJ]

Rejected which sucks

[DaisyAimi]

You look so hot though!!

[Blackcupcake]

Pursued by weirdos

[collie22]

i get asked some

[Enochian]

Rejected more.

[KittygosMeoWW]

Both

[potatoooo]

None lol

[eagle1951]

i'm a reject

[Anonymous]

Neither