Ok is it OK for a male teacher to hug a young lady in the front (front hug)?

[olivia98]

Ok his so perverted he talks inappropriate to me like sexual stuff and when it was my last day he asked for a hug and hugged me tight and his chest was touching mine and our stomachs were I felt creeped out and when I'm standing up in line his like always behind me he looks at my butt and other girl and one thing on the last day of school he only gave me a hug nobody else creeps

Updates

+1 y

his relationship status is divorced and his older older men are attracted to young ladies

Updates

+1 y

plus his hands was on my waist

[sadpanda256]

okay, so obviously this is wrong, and you need to contact a TRUSTED authority figure and very possibly the police. Maybe this sounds like over reacting, but you should know that sexual harassment is not a joke, and sometimes situations like these result in the worst scenario- rape. You understandably really feel uncomfortable, and should not get wrapped up in his manipulation. This man is not a good guy obviously, and you should not go at this alone. Take caution- keep GHB testers on you, don't be found alone with him, go asked to switch classes- even talk to the principal about this if you don't think you can contact the local law enforcement (which is probably the bet option.) Please, please be smart and keep yourself safe.

[CuddlyCarla]

A girl knows when something is friendly in nature or something that's inappropriate. No teacher should be talking to you about sex (unless it's a sex ed class and you asked a question). You need to go to the principal and report this immediately. If this is happening to you, it's going to happen to other girls (and already has). Tell the principal that you'd like to talk to him/her in confidence and let them know it makes you uncomfortable to talk about it and if you want, you can ask them if they can keep it confidential, and confide your fears and what you are experiencing. You have a responsibility to stop this and protect yourself and the other girls at school, this has no place in your scholastic experience.

[olivia98]

its not a sex class it social studies bye the way

[udolipixie]

Report him.

Go to Student Affairs or the Dean.

Hopefully you have a female dean I doubt any male dean would have been so quick to handle my reports.

Why'd you give him a hug?

He could use that to say you were flirting with him.

[olivia98]

he asked for a hug not me

[udolipixie]

And you gave it to him.

Line of questioning that may go-

He made you feel uncomfortable? yes

his actions were unwanted? yes

so why did you give him a hug? um..he asked?

[olivia98]

yes I'm a type of person scared to said no to anybody

[udolipixie]

You're easy prey then.

This could be a frequent thing you encounter.

[olivia98]

ok you don't know me at all so how can you tell me just don't comment it on anymore because you don't know nuthin about my life so just to let you know I reported you ok

[udolipixie]

I'm not telling you anything about your life.

You told me.

"yes I'm a type of person scared to said no to anybody"

Not being able to say no is one thing certain predators look for.

Until you learn to say no things like this can be a frequent encounter.

Odd that you're quick to report common sense but not a guy you think is perverted.

[udolipixie]

Will you be as quick to block me for telling you that not being able to say no will put you in more situations like this but unable to do anything about this teacher?

[olivia98]

its different I can just click a button

[udolipixie]

You are aware that he can't really harm you right?

[udolipixie]

You pretty much have the power to sully his name.

[olivia98]

i do ?

[TyroneJayJackson]

I read the updates and all the other answers and I change my mind because I ran it through in my mind. If he has physical contact with you (unless you have a physical condition where he actually needs to place himself on you in anyway) it is wrong.

[TyroneJayJackson]

A hug is okay I guess but if he does anything else, Even if he just strokes you, he needs to be reported.

[palek]

He's a cretin. The next time he does something creepy just tell him flat out that he's walkin on eggshells and if he doesn't knock it off you'll report him.

[Dharndy]

That is wrong, completely wrong.. Yeah its just a hug but its totally inappropriate..

[olivia98]

i totaly agree with you

[slipslender]

REPORT HIM.

educators shouldn't abuse their power like that :/

[JonDHawk]

I believe it's OK for a male teacher to hug a young lady in the front? but not this creep. He's so far over the line he can't even se it.

[larry69]

He needs reported and fired

[xperience]

report his ass ez.

[larry69]

No its not OK

[olivia98]

agree