Do guys with dad bods like being called big? or is that only a compliment for muscly guys?

[nocturnalbaby]

I know gym junkies with abs & big muscles are big & probably like being told so, but my fuckbuddy has a dad bod that I absolutely love. He's not muscly, doesn't work out or anything, he's 6 foot, & he's quite meaty. He's not obese or extremely fat looking, but he's got meat in all the right places. He's got a big belly, and he has like nice squishy legs and arms, and a nice fleshy face, and he looks good like that. I love bodies like that way more than muscly bodies. I've always wanted to tell him things like 'I love how big you are daddy', or 'let me sit down on your big thighs', but I've been worried about saying things like that incase it sounds like I'm calling him fat.

Do you think he'd like it? would a guy with a dad bod take it as a compliment to be called big?

[molonski2]

He probably doesn't mind hearing it from you Id imagine , but for many others it would be highly offensive , there is BIG , and then there is FAT , if he's young and fat , and lives on an horrendous diet even worse , plus premature death.

[bowenw]

I wouldn't use the word big unless you were referring to his dick. Instead I'd say something like: I love how you look, I love your body, I love how tall you are, I love your sexy thighs, I love the way your body feels.

[Anonymous]

I've always been big. I don't feel like I look like those obese overweight dudes - I don't feel like I have huge proportions. But I know I am big, and I hate the way I look. People always call me stuff like 'big guy'. I hate it tbh. I never say anything when they say it, because I don't think they mean it insultingly, but yeah.. I hate how I look.

[nocturnalbaby]

I'm sorry to hear that, I hope you do learn to love yourself as you are

[Jerre]

I don’t think it bothers them one way or another. I don’t mind being called “big daddy”

[IsoUser]

To be honest I wouldn't mind it at all lol

[DGravez6]

People say I'm "stout". I'm cool with that.