My crush lives far away and I don't know what to do anymore. I have it bad for him but it’s been too long. Help?

[Anonymous]

So, my crush and I met Jan 2022 while he was in town. we had a great connection and chemistry but he went back to where he came from. He added me on fb a day later. I sent a what’s up text 2 weeks later, and we talked, exchanged snaps and everything. The snapping has since then fizzled out and I get the feeling he is out dating too. However I can’t get him out of my head.

He is really sweet and I feel so confused with my strong feelings that didn’t get realized. I wished him happy birthday a few weeks ago, it seemed like he was happy to hear from me but it fizzled out too. I’m just still hoping something can happen, but at the same time it’s not realistic and I’m sad about that.

I want to tell him how I feel but I don’t want to come off as desperate, and on too strong. Is it worth it to tell him? How do I tell him? Or should I totally let this go? I’ve considered trying to Snapchat again, but I don’t wanna scare him off

[wheist9095]

I would say you got to actively try to let it go, push the feelings in the memories out of your head and replace them with new memories and new feelings for a new person. Sometimes you meet the right person at the wrong time and that's okay, you just need to put yourself back out there and try and meet new people who You can enjoy being with or around