Is it not a good idea for the guy to flirt with her in this situation?

[Anonymous]

The girl had previously been on a few dates with the guy and then the girl told him she enjoy his company but more as friends. And then he said he’d find it difficult to be friends as he finds her attractive so they parted ways as she suggested that’s probably what’s best for now. She also said it’s bad timing for her. But then after 6 months she liked his instagram post so he got in touch and he asks her to a walk and then an exhibit and then a candle light concert. In this situation, is it a bad idea for the guy to flirt with her?

It’s a bad idea for him to flirt with her

It’s fine for him to flirt with her and test the waters

[CrazyGirl2]

Look, it failed once before, because SHE said the timing wasn’t good… However, she also said that she liked him only as a friend! Regardless of timing, girls don’t go from liking you as a friend (code for not romantically attracted to you) to suddenly sexually or romantically attracted to you, and that NEVER changes! So I would say it is a VERY BAD IDEA to flirt with her, date her, or even going for a walk or a candlelight concert! Leave this woman well alone, how many times does she need to tell you she is not attracted to you, before you actually believe her?

[Asker]

But I told her I’m not interested in friendship and yet she accepted my invites. She has a voice, it’s her responsibility too to make herself clear. Not just mine.

[Asker]

Also your post isn’t an answer - it’s an emotionally fuelled rant.

[CrazyGirl2]

Fuck you, you anonymous coward!

[Asker]

That was uncalled for. You just swore at me.

[CrazyGirl2]

Yes I swore at you, you deserved it, and admin must agree with me since I got promoted to SUPERB OPINIONS

[Asker]

Actually that was an AI bot choice.

[Avicenna]

Yeah, unless she seems to want it

[strateguy632]

1rd.