What is the “I’m Not Like Most Girls” phenomenon?

[EmyyWolf]

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So I was thinking about how the idea of “I’m Not Like Most Girls”, and how it is widespread. And wrongly used.

IM HONESTLY STARTING TO THINK THAT MOST GIRLS ARE LIKE MOST GIRLS.
NOBODY IS A SPECIAL SNOWFLAKE.

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Also, I heard that MEN tend to use the “Youre the one in a millon”, “You’re not like most girls”, talk , as a form of manipulation and control. So that he may be in her mind for good.

[Sixgunsound]

I think a lot of women in their 20s and 30s are starting to realize that men in that same age range are walking away. They’re sick of the bullshit they’re sick of the whining the drama the expectation to get everything for nothing etc. That being the case, to differentiate themselves from their sisters they have to claim that they are not like most girls that are drinking the feminist Kool-Aid and acting like that and treating men like that if they want a chance at marriage and a family and a house in the suburbs. Most men can see right through that, even if not right away, or like another poster mentioned are willing to play along temporary Lee to get what they want out of it but when the true colors manifest keep it moving. The trick is to actually be different, then not only will you not have to say it and lie, but there is a greater be likelihood of long term involvement.

[Sixgunsound]

Thanks for MHO

[PatriceONeal]

Girls are really quite similar. They hate that it's true. Hivemind can be seen everywhere. From the jobs they choose to hobbies/men/cars/clothing (especially HS and Uni) opinions/political alignment/spirituality/eating habits/ voting.

Feel free to add

[EmyyWolf]

Yeah I agree. I used to think that I was UNIQUE and SPECIAL because a hot guy liked me once.
It took a long awakening to realize that we’re pretty much all the same. I liked the same hot guy that ALL GIRLS LIKED.
Ain’t nothing unique and quirky and special about me.

I feel like most of us women need to get over ourselves. We did grow up in the princess mindset from Disney. But reality isn’t a Disney Movie.

Maybe having a tight slimy vag, compared to a loose and mom vag can make a woman special, but then again sex isn’t EVERYTHING.
And there are plenty of women with that have it TIGHTTT.

[PatriceONeal]

And they have pssy rejuvenation available, you can't even rely on the tightness metric.

[EmyyWolf]

Pussy rejuvenation doesn’t make it tight lMAO
It just makes it not look sloppy and overused.
🤦🏻‍♀️

[PatriceONeal]

You couldn't let me have some hope could you😭

[HighValue]

MANY girls on dating sites put "I'm not like most girls" and then they list their qualities which are exactly like the majority of girls on there. The majority of girls do seem to be basically the same with their morals (lack of morals) their pasts, and what they look for in someone.

[truthisthree]

I told you already there is a reason I do not date

( and you are actually a little different cause you know he is above the dome )

not like most girls

[EmyyWolf]

Well I can agree with that part I’m a huge conspiracy theorist and don’t easily believe everything that pops up on the mainstream media

[enocheli]

@EmyyWolf

but I do have one issue with you

you do not value those of us who believe the truth,
cause we know the king is above the dome

get at of that worldly mentally
of what you think the best is

[YHL6965]

In my experience, a girl that insists that she is not like other girls tend to be super generic or running after approval, which is generally not interesting or even straight up a red flag. The girls who tend to actually be not like other girls do not mention or even care about that because they just are who they are and just own it.

[Reaper1985]

most girls who engage in modern hookup culture are the same at the core level. the rare gems are the ones who only fool around with a partner they are in a long term relationship with. same holds to for most guys these days however.

[EmyyWolf]

MOST guys are either HOT and getting all kinds.
Or UGLY and purchasing P*SSY.
So all men are the same in the sense that they’re all DOGS & PIGS

[Reaper1985]

your not wrong at the end of the day most guys are driven by a primal urge to find a warm wet hole to fuck so they can spread their gens. however a good woman can get a good man's urges in check but helping him to deal with the regularly. which will likely keep him loyal and faithful to her long term. provide she doesn't cause him to much drama or denies him regularly release. however he also needs to make sure to pleasure her regularly to keep her faithful and loyal to him also.

[Reaper1985]

typo *however a good woman can keep a good man's urges in check by helping him to deal with the regularly.*

[ronaldo75]

Women on the internet are in a feeding frenzy for attention and at this point they're running out of asinine basic bitch qualities they can redefine into "uNiQuE qUaLiTiEz" they can use to set thirst traps and attention grabs.

[AlanJ17M4F]

Might mean they are too smart to talk to people way older than they are. Probably not but that's my guess to the phenomenon. by the way I've only heard that once from a girl, might not be a phenomenon

[Guy13]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/QFkr4L4t3GI

[Guy13]

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[FilmGuy93]

This is a pretty solid set of observations. "I'm not like other girls" always means without fail that she is 100% exactly like other girls.

[dolemite89]

“i’m not like most girls…. i’m worse” is my favorite 😂 girls are usually very predictable in the long term.

[EmyyWolf]

Lol
I haven’t heard that one BEFORE!!
😂

[TroyDT]

Esther Vilar is not like most girls. Ones like her are rather rare.

[Juan4574]

That phrase applies to American women who are not promiscuous. Because most American women are promiscuous, and promiscuous women disgust me.

[EmyyWolf]

It don’t matter… because those promiscuous girls were the same virgins that you want so much at one point.

[SJ1984]

Is there a male equivalent to this?

[EmyyWolf]

I don’t think so.
But I’ve always heard that women tend to say “I’m Not Like Other Girls When You’re In Bed With Them”.
And it turns out All girls are like All girls.

[NathanDavis]

memes are just memes...

[Texaskid1]

" I don't want a man for his money"

[Fuentes]

Juice world said it "All girls are the same"