Love talking to a guy but I get grossed out/ill thinking about him when we’re not talking (not butterflies straight up cringe) What’s wrong with me?

[Anonymous]

I’m talking to this really sweet guy and I will literally sit around and wait for his texts since I love chatting w/ him so much. Problem is when I stop talking to him for the day and like imagine dating him or whatever im like “aww” then suddenly im grossed outa dn don’t get how it would even work and I don’t know why i want to talk to him in the first place. It’s just feel awkward and embarrassing and i hate it. But he texts me I’m over here kicking my feet and shit bcs I enjoy his presence. Help?

[Anonymous]

Maybe you are lesbian?
If not then it’s normal to feel grossed etc
Maybe it has to do with your childhood past memories etc
I think it’s normal to do “ dirty things “ but you have to get past it and normalize your thoughts of dating that is normal to do it etc


Oh you can also be asexual


At the end just do as you feel

[Goopawn]

This reads to me like you're projecting your negative expectations for what he'll be like in a relationship to mentally talk yourself out of going any further to find out what he's really like. I don't know your relationship with this person, maybe you know how he is, but if you really dont, where else could you be getting these thoughts but from your imagination?

[Anonymous]

Maybe you are trying to force yourself to be attracted to a nice guy but it's not possible, few girls are. Just be honest with yourself. You just don't see him as a romantic option, more of one of the girl friends in a male body.

[Asker]

No like I really like him because this happens with every single guy I like without fail. I will fall into an almost depression wondering how I got to a point of being interested in this guy and like feel horrible until we talk again or like the next day then the cycle continues

[QuietVerbena]

That’s really weird. Why do you feel that way?

[Asker]

Girl I don't know that’s why I’m asking. It’s literally happened with every guy I’ve ever liked, I’ll go into a near depression bcs I’ll feel so embraced and grossed out by the idea of dating and then I’ll go on the next day and still like them

[Asker]

Embarrassed*

[QuietVerbena]

Wish I could help

[Danny_dan92]

You’re young and naive

[chicosuave]

Weird