I just be me. If they don't like who I am and my normal charisma, then me trying too hard to charm them isn't going to work... and it isn't sustainable.
I make jokes trying to make her laugh or smile then if I find something that we both like I try have a good conversation and when I feel she nice and comfortable I might give light touches on her arm or hands and if I feel she really warm up. tomme input my hand on her thighs or hips.
i like teasing girls and having funny playful arguments. I find that pretty girls get an inflated ego cuz they are so used to guys kissing their ass so it’s disarming when a guy has the balls to make fun of them. 😅
Wow I thought I was the only one. At no time my life have I ever had "game" I was never able to wooo the girls... heck I didn't even see any girls my age until I was 24... EXTREMELY SHELTERED LIFE.
So today when feeling better I came back and flirted. I told her she looks good, asked about her tattoos.
Then she recommended the ribs, so I played a flirty game. I told her that I couldn't decide what I wanted, and that I'd like her to tell me what to have.
It was fun, she got me something off menu that she likes, and I told her looking her in the eyes.
I'd like you to give me an old fashioned. Nice double entendre, for those of you who don't know it's a drink, and also a nickname for a HJ lol.
The drink comes, I ask for a pen. I draw a rose on a napkin, pretty basic drawing but whatever.
Then write Text Me ,❤️ along with my number.
Pay, give a good tip, joke around, give her the napkin, tell her no pressure, and sip my drinks for a while.
I'll say though it may start out simple or a tad boring like your 2nd example but after getting her replies i usually get fuel to build up to my flirtations lol.
And also sometimes my flirtations fall flat of course im not perfect. but i can't resists trying most of the time. especially if im really into her lol
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I don’t think there’s any. I don’t know how to flirt and I suck with being able to tell if someone’s flirting with me
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I don't have the confidence to flirt lol.
Give it time. You're still young yet. Wait until you're at least 18
@Sparkie460 Very true
I just be me. If they don't like who I am and my normal charisma, then me trying too hard to charm them isn't going to work... and it isn't sustainable.
I make jokes trying to make her laugh or smile then if I find something that we both like I try have a good conversation and when I feel she nice and comfortable I might give light touches on her arm or hands and if I feel she really warm up. tomme input my hand on her thighs or hips.
Depends where I am, I usually make it relevant. Like if I'm at the beach, I'd ask if they'd like a swim.
Poetic texts. Making her smile is what my goal is while texting her. And keeping her engaged too.
You don't wanna know... I start like summer rain and finish with a Hurricane...😈😈😁
Super indirect and dumb to the point where nobody knows if I like them or not 😭😭
I just don't flirt... I can't,
good thing I never actually needed it, lol
i like teasing girls and having funny playful arguments. I find that pretty girls get an inflated ego cuz they are so used to guys kissing their ass so it’s disarming when a guy has the balls to make fun of them. 😅
I'm kinda dumb, so I don't know when anyone is trying to flirt with me, which in turn means I cannot flirt 💀
I don't have the temerity to flirt in person so I just ask a bunch of questions and tease her if the opportunity arises.
Wow I thought I was the only one. At no time my life have I ever had "game" I was never able to wooo the girls... heck I didn't even see any girls my age until I was 24... EXTREMELY SHELTERED LIFE.
Well I think the barmaid at the local pub might like me, as she was asking me if I had plans, told me when she was getting off a while ago.
I was feeling like shit that day, didn't pick up on it and missed out.
Posted before I was done opps.
So today when feeling better I came back and flirted. I told her she looks good, asked about her tattoos.
Then she recommended the ribs, so I played a flirty game. I told her that I couldn't decide what I wanted, and that I'd like her to tell me what to have.
It was fun, she got me something off menu that she likes, and I told her looking her in the eyes.
I'd like you to give me an old fashioned. Nice double entendre, for those of you who don't know it's a drink, and also a nickname for a HJ lol.
The drink comes, I ask for a pen. I draw a rose on a napkin, pretty basic drawing but whatever.
Then write Text Me ,❤️ along with my number.
Pay, give a good tip, joke around, give her the napkin, tell her no pressure, and sip my drinks for a while.
Think she'll call me?
Wait for it.
A little wittiness mixed in with subtle innuendo's maybe a tad bit of self deprecating humor so i don't come across sounding too cocky :P
I'll say though it may start out simple or a tad boring like your 2nd example but after getting her replies i usually get fuel to build up to my flirtations lol.
And also sometimes my flirtations fall flat of course im not perfect. but i can't resists trying most of the time. especially if im really into her lol
A good smile attract people with positive things also your eyes says many more...
Being a genuine human being, being myself all levels of goofy and crazy, if they like me they like me if not then maybe they’ll text me lol
I'd look them directly in the eyes and hope they get it. Any other style will be extremely awkward and unattractive, I have no social skills.
Haha... that funny. To be honest I don't know my flirting style.. I don't think I'm any good at it. lol
LOL! Are you neurodivergent like me? Your response is typical. 😂