Does the way you flirt change with age?

Question

Did the way you flirted with people change as you got older?

PrettyPriya · Accepted Answer

Great question! I think it did to some degree. I would say in my teen years that I flirted different than I do (have done in the past) now. Just thinking back, I can remember myself awkwardly flirting with guys. When younger it was almost like “shy” flirting. Acting goofy like girls do.

Fast forward to flirting with my now fiancé, much different and maybe even call it sophisticated tactics of flirting. I remember planning it out in my head how I was going to get his attention and know how to make him see I was interested.

I used body language, smiling, “the look” that we use to send signals I was intentionally flirting and was interested. Once I knew he was picking up what I was putting down, I asked him if he’d like to have lunch sometime and the rest is history.

So, I do think it changed from younger years to now and that is solely based on experience and maturing. There are some things that haven’t changed though, like that “look” I mention. You know the one where you bat your eyelashes, smile and hold that eye contact.

WhitneySnow · Accepted Answer

I’m still kind of awkward at it but I’m getting better

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Everything changes as you get older life is an experience we get to experience life everybody says why are we here what's the reason why we're here is so you can experience life and become a bigger better person from it you get to experience it over and over and over and the more you experience the more dialed in you get yourself if you learn from it so everything changes everyday and that's a very beautiful thing especially when you can grow with it and become it and feel it and when you can feel it deep it's beautiful it's the most beautiful feeling you will ever feel

Hairylegs222 · Accepted Answer

Great question. Yes my flirting has changed a lot ever since I hit puberty. From immature not knowing anything about women and what I should say, to the complete opposite.

Pinay_ako · Answer

You get better with age

Avicenna · Answer

It does, and that's totally normal. First of all, you usually are flirting with older people than you did when you were younger, and they also are assumed to have more experience and confidence when being approached, so that affects how you do it. You also get better at understanding body language and subtle messages people give you.

Conversation topics may also be different as well, although I can tell you from personal experience that it sometimes matters very little what you say when there is physical attraction. It depends, though.

VikingWarLord · Answer

As I've gotten older and more financially rich, I realize that the having "toys" (flaunting wealth with cars, etc..) makes it easy. You don't even have to try, especially for the hot, younger broads in their late teens and early 20s.

They always wanna "take a ride" in your new whip, and before the night's over, her pannties are down at her ankles. It really is that easy when you're a dude, no need to flirt, just get wealthy and stay reasonably in shape, the honeys will come flocking to you.

DannyUk2017 · Answer

It does... as the Mind/Age progresses so the Flirt Ideas, they tend to be Less childish and more Mature...
Won't be too much "hihi-haha", won't be too much childish moves, will be more, sensual looks, arousal, more chemistry, more dirty looks and cheeky smiles... So yeah...

ethanallen · Answer

I met a 70 year old woman who had an amazing body. We went out for coffee and when I drove her back to her car, we were talking when she said "I love sex." I took her back to her house and fucked her. I couldn't believe how perky her tits were. She never had kids and was in great shape.

litty · Answer

With age comes wisdom. I remember when I was in highschool & early 20s I was super awkward. Now that I'm in early 30s I'm still awkward, but I can tell when to engage or leave a conversation based on how involved the person is when listening and talking to me.

The leaving part is important because there will be plenty more times you meet them, and if they mentioned before like a vacation or birthday, then you can ask how it went. Paying attention like that is a huge compliment.

kellytheman · Answer

I say I got better at flirting and learned how to make the girl interested in me and give me a chance as I got older. I feel when I was younger I was really shy and low confidence and sometimes try to hard. or say the wrong thing the girl didn't like.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

I was always too friendly/kind. I learned the hard way. I am more careful how I talk to guys now.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I'm shy to flirt but usually, I let the girl flirt with me first Usually my flirting is more tender, I like to make eye contact, I like to flirt by smiling, My soft spoken talk makes the girl know I like her

MTC29 · Answer

Everything becomes direct. There is no longer any reason to play games or "tap dance".  Frankly, it is a huge relief.

ElementoP · Answer

I haven't noticed any change in the way girls flirt with me from kids your age to even now with women in their 30s I've never been much of a flirt because I suck at it

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Nah. I never have flirted with anyone, period. Even when I used to ask girls out (when I was a child), I was always direct.

HonestAssholeJ · Answer

Of course. As you go through more life experiences you naturally change.

Jacobbbb · Answer

It definitely does. Feels like awkward and more natural lol

Passing_by · Answer

For sure. Earlier I didn't even know how to flirt. And now... Lol xD

Th3ft · Answer

Not really. Maybe it gets a bit more mature but the same basic instincts are all there.

TwiNshichamp1 · Answer

I can say Iam good at flirting maybe because Iam a funny person and I like to talk too. I don't think so but, there might be a difference

exitseven · Answer

Yes, I would never flirt with somebody under thirty.

Phoenix98 · Answer

Not really I mean so far it hasn't really changed for me.

Fuentes · Answer

I think the only think you should be flirting with is your homework to finish school & Maybe a good college if you choose that route.

Mark987 · Answer

For sure. The younger you are I find it's more innocent and the older you get it's more to the point.

loveslongnails · Answer

Absolutely - you can't flirt with a 30 yr old woman likes she's 19 years old!

DiegoO · Answer

It change. That's a life fact. Everything change.

Sparkie460 · Answer

Since I'm married I don't flirt to pick up a woman. I flirt to make them smile and cheer them up

Staximus · Answer

Yeah, I'm not as clueless as I used to be haha

Joinlovebkb · Answer

I dont flirt I just punch nikkas and drag them home

Twalli · Answer

I never flirt, I am just very friendly with everyone

Silver158 · Answer

I still take the piss out of the girl to some extent, teasing etc

Anonymous · Answer

It tends to get much more straightforward over time.

Anonymous · Answer

No but then I don't flirt at all and never have for fear of violating the MeToo statutes

Anonymous · Answer

It's not changed as well I still don't know how to flirt.

20yearsolder · Answer

Yes because my wife doesn't allow it

JaxiCats · Answer

Kinda yea but I don't know by how much

Makeushiver · Answer

I've gotten a lot more confident

xitssomeone · Answer

It does , did it for you?

panamared1 · Answer

all things change with age

AsaKyo · Answer

I don't know how to flirt

OddBeMe · Answer

Flirting in your 30s is more “You down”…”coolsie”.

nawtee_me · Answer

Yes, it got more sexual the older I got.

Loser94 · Answer

I don't have the ability to flirt anymore

HandsomeAndBald · Answer

does not change. :D

TallAnon · Answer

For sure, you get better at it or stop caring.

Pedodad82 · Answer

Yeah because I'll go to jail

Xtendable · Answer

I was way more shy when I was younger

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Yes cause as you get older you get more confident

Jackson619 · Answer

Yes I'm lot more open sexually

Celticwolf78 · Answer

Yes it did I've been rejected 4 times

tbradley · Answer

Yea for sure it does or did for me

Anonymous · Answer

I would say it would.

Straight2thepoint · Answer

Yes 10000 %

Mart10 · Answer

Experience

katestar · Answer

It does.

BHooper · Answer

100%.

maximumpower · Answer

Of course.

Charliefretz329 · Answer

I’m much bolder now…

goodgirlsteven · Answer

yes very much so

EaterPeter · Answer

I think so

Preeti161101 · Answer

Definitely

kareka · Answer

Yes..

Avgbrisbaneguy · Answer

It can

Does the way you flirt change with age?

Most Helpful Opinions

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

Does the way you flirt change with age?

Most Helpful Opinions

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

We're glad to see you liked this post.