Does the way you flirt change with age?

[AnnaTumbles]

Did the way you flirted with people change as you got older?

[PrettyPriya]

Great question! I think it did to some degree. I would say in my teen years that I flirted different than I do (have done in the past) now. Just thinking back, I can remember myself awkwardly flirting with guys. When younger it was almost like “shy” flirting. Acting goofy like girls do.

Fast forward to flirting with my now fiancé, much different and maybe even call it sophisticated tactics of flirting. I remember planning it out in my head how I was going to get his attention and know how to make him see I was interested.

I used body language, smiling, “the look” that we use to send signals I was intentionally flirting and was interested. Once I knew he was picking up what I was putting down, I asked him if he’d like to have lunch sometime and the rest is history.

So, I do think it changed from younger years to now and that is solely based on experience and maturing. There are some things that haven’t changed though, like that “look” I mention. You know the one where you bat your eyelashes, smile and hold that eye contact.

[WonderBell99]

Your younger self sounds so similar to my now self! 🤣

I’m TERRIBLE at flirting. I usually glance a few times at attractive guys and when they catch me glancing at them, I look away; and they stare at me sometimes lmao. It’s confusing and awkward af😂.

You need to give me some flirting tips when I leave for college!

[PrettyPriya]

@WonderBell99 I was the same lol. Soooo awkward! I will definitely help up your game. 🙂

[WonderBell99]

Haha yess, thanks! ^_^

[PrettyPriya]

@AnnaTumbles thank you for the MHO 🙂

[WhitneySnow]

I’m still kind of awkward at it but I’m getting better

[ohsheeT]

Everything changes as you get older life is an experience we get to experience life everybody says why are we here what's the reason why we're here is so you can experience life and become a bigger better person from it you get to experience it over and over and over and the more you experience the more dialed in you get yourself if you learn from it so everything changes everyday and that's a very beautiful thing especially when you can grow with it and become it and feel it and when you can feel it deep it's beautiful it's the most beautiful feeling you will ever feel

[Hairylegs222]

Great question. Yes my flirting has changed a lot ever since I hit puberty. From immature not knowing anything about women and what I should say, to the complete opposite.

[Pinay_ako]

You get better with age

[dolemite89]

not true at all 😛😂

[Pinay_ako]

@dolemite89 🤣 why maybe for you? 😝

[dolemite89]

we’re talking about u 😝😝

[Pinay_ako]

@dolemite89 🤣 really now

[dolemite89]

😘😈😂

[Pinay_ako]

@dolemite89 🤣 👉👌🫶🤭

[dolemite89]

don’t start something u can’t finish 😏😅

[Pinay_ako]

@dolemite8 🤣 Is that a challenge?

[Avicenna]

It does, and that's totally normal. First of all, you usually are flirting with older people than you did when you were younger, and they also are assumed to have more experience and confidence when being approached, so that affects how you do it. You also get better at understanding body language and subtle messages people give you.

Conversation topics may also be different as well, although I can tell you from personal experience that it sometimes matters very little what you say when there is physical attraction. It depends, though.

[VikingWarLord]

As I've gotten older and more financially rich, I realize that the having "toys" (flaunting wealth with cars, etc..) makes it easy. You don't even have to try, especially for the hot, younger broads in their late teens and early 20s.

They always wanna "take a ride" in your new whip, and before the night's over, her pannties are down at her ankles. It really is that easy when you're a dude, no need to flirt, just get wealthy and stay reasonably in shape, the honeys will come flocking to you.

[DannyUk2017]

It does... as the Mind/Age progresses so the Flirt Ideas, they tend to be Less childish and more Mature...
Won't be too much "hihi-haha", won't be too much childish moves, will be more, sensual looks, arousal, more chemistry, more dirty looks and cheeky smiles... So yeah...

[ethanallen]

I met a 70 year old woman who had an amazing body. We went out for coffee and when I drove her back to her car, we were talking when she said "I love sex." I took her back to her house and fucked her. I couldn't believe how perky her tits were. She never had kids and was in great shape.

[litty]

With age comes wisdom. I remember when I was in highschool & early 20s I was super awkward. Now that I'm in early 30s I'm still awkward, but I can tell when to engage or leave a conversation based on how involved the person is when listening and talking to me.

The leaving part is important because there will be plenty more times you meet them, and if they mentioned before like a vacation or birthday, then you can ask how it went. Paying attention like that is a huge compliment.

[kellytheman]

I say I got better at flirting and learned how to make the girl interested in me and give me a chance as I got older. I feel when I was younger I was really shy and low confidence and sometimes try to hard. or say the wrong thing the girl didn't like.

[midnightmoon05]

I was always too friendly/kind. I learned the hard way. I am more careful how I talk to guys now.

[Losalt]

I'm sorry to hear that. :-/
I hope that you'll find someone that allow you to feel like you don't have to be guarded anymore.

[midnightmoon05]

Thank you @Losalt I am married to a wonderful guy. Met him here on gag. We dated 6 years. LD.
I messed up my first marriage because we were both very immature and didn’t know how to handle relationships. We are good now 😊

[Losalt]

I'm glad to hear that. ☺️
Not sure what "LD" means.

[midnightmoon05]

@Losalt long distance.

[Losalt]

Ah, yes, that makes sense.
And yeah, if you're able to make long distance work them that definitely helps with your communication skills.
I had one long distance for some years that I meet here too.

[midnightmoon05]

@Losalt how is that going? Did you two met in person?
We didn’t met because we wanted to date… it was a “set up” lol

[GenaBaby1995]

💯 why are they so fucking dumb? Just because I'm talking to you for a while doesn't mean I want to date or sleep with you.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I'm shy to flirt but usually, I let the girl flirt with me first Usually my flirting is more tender, I like to make eye contact, I like to flirt by smiling, My soft spoken talk makes the girl know I like her

[MTC29]

Everything becomes direct. There is no longer any reason to play games or "tap dance".

Frankly, it is a huge relief.

[ElementoP]

I haven't noticed any change in the way girls flirt with me from kids your age to even now with women in their 30s

I've never been much of a flirt because I suck at it

[Jamie05rhs]

Nah. I never have flirted with anyone, period. Even when I used to ask girls out (when I was a child), I was always direct.

[HonestAssholeJ]

Of course. As you go through more life experiences you naturally change.

[Jacobbbb]

It definitely does. Feels like awkward and more natural lol

[Jacobbbb]

less awkward** where is my brain

[Passing_by]

For sure. Earlier I didn't even know how to flirt. And now... Lol xD

[Th3ft]

Not really. Maybe it gets a bit more mature but the same basic instincts are all there.

[TwiNshichamp1]

I can say Iam good at flirting maybe because Iam a funny person and I like to talk too. I don't think so but, there might be a difference

[exitseven]

Yes, I would never flirt with somebody under thirty.

[Phoenix98]

Not really I mean so far it hasn't really changed for me.

[Fuentes]

I think the only think you should be flirting with is your homework to finish school & Maybe a good college if you choose that route.

[Tornado92]

Bro for real 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆

Good one 👍 😆😆😆😆😆😆