Does your flirting and passion get more relaxed, controlled and less wild as you get older?

[RoseySarah]

Now a wonderful massage, snuggle, and bath are better after a date night then just heated passion!

Still wild as always lifting my dates up for a kiss

In some ways but not others

Definitely noticed this happening

Not there yet still young!

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[AJR78]

45 and never flirted or been flirted with in my entire life. Ugly people problems. Most people want nothing to do with me. The world hates ugly. Awkwardness is also considered ugly so it's a double whammy. Life is a genetic lottery and my ticket (dna code) is definitely not a winning ticket. I am interacting with this web site because i admit I do not understand how normal people interact and I never have. I want to learn if I can. Not to assimilate because that will never happen, but to at least fully understand why I have never and will never fit in anywhere with anyone.

[RoseySarah]

Why not still try to pass it on any ways most people love passing bad DNA
Look at all the genetic diseases that could be stopped if they just adopt!

[AJR78]

I believe you are trolling me, but I'll play. Passing it on can only happen 2 ways. With a willing partner, and no females ever show any interest. I only have a few friends in this whole world and none of them are female. The other way is an unwilling participant and I'm am not a criminal. Oddly enough I have only ever worked retail jobs. Mostly cashiering. In that very specific context and scenario, I actually manage to have mostly positive interactions with people. I can be very 'nice' and friendly and I am very articulate. Problem is that I am seen as a fixture rather than an actual human being that exists, thinks and feels. In that frame I can 'perform' in order to get a paycheck, but I never truly connect with anyone ever.

[RoseySarah]

No really wondering

[AJR78]

Really wondering what? There isn't a female on the face of the earth that would 'mate' with me. I've never even had a female friend before. Only women I interact with are family or at work.

[hahahmm]

Yes & no. If you want a man to have the same energy he had at 25 then you as his woman need to give the same energy you did at 25. And energy includes how you treat him & yourself. Some women think they can be lazy and still get everything they want. The older a guy gets the less time he has for bs.

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

What a great point!

[RavenDarkheart]

Not rushing getting there but I imagine that the longer I’m stuck single the more adventures I’ll be flirting.

[IslaTheWitch]

my flirting is probably more sarcastic lol... the rest will be tested in some future

[RoseySarah]

Lol yeah noticed that with my girlfriend's too!

[hahahmm]

Be careful with that... a guy puts up with a lot when he's 20s but not the same when he's older.

[NathanDavis]

not exactly, no...

with more experience, there's more of a range or variety to it...

I really don't think it is a matter of age, not to me anyway... it's more about the other person I am with, and how they are about these things... and how I will be into them about these things...

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

I think we flirt a little differently these days with children in the house and a whole lot of family and friends generally being present. I think once we get warmed up, we keep it a little quieter, unless we are in the house alone, or on a quick getaway together. The energy is still ever present :-)

[BadApple69]

Passion is still there but the bath and massage is what I do for my girlfriend every chance we get.

[clampfan101]

I personally haven’t had the chance to even start yet, but I believe it does for people in general. Probably B.

[stratford]

If anything it's gotten worse! Sometimes I feel so sexually frustrated!

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Sometimes, being on here, can make it worse as well. It's more fun you when you take the time to find someone who opens your eyes to true enjoyment, beyond the bedroom

[stratford]

@MiddleAgedClimbee I know what you mean. Sometimes I think GaG isn't good for my sexual wellbeing as it can raise a lot of thoughts and ideas that just make me horny all the time!

[MiddleAgedClimbee]

Sometimes it's good to find a member of the opposite sex, on here, they can help calm you down and bring you back to reality. A lot of people really thrive on attention, and want to draw individuals in to a very sexualized bubble.

[SotiCoto]

I just don't flirt. Never did. At least not deliberately.
I just snark and make inappropriate jokes.
My jokes have got marginally more subtle than the outright flamebait of my early 20s though.

[Minahh]

It gets like that when you get intelligent and tell yourself that you don't want to be miserable

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

In some ways, but not others.

[RoseySarah]

Those some ways are important

[Pohjolan]

I mean when you have been through enough heavy stuff then the lesser things seem tame in comparison, so definitively more relaxed.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Nope.

[love_conquers_lust]

Mine appears to be getting worse.

[Liketotry]

I’m really too old for that.

[strateguy632]

4th. 48 age

[eagle1951]

pretty much