You Girls think Hinting is enough all the time when it's obviously not yet you still keep on Hinting.
If Hinting doesn't work it means you need to take action, You Girls are so afraid to be Straight forward because you might be perceived as too slutty or something, A girl who takes action is way more Attractive than a Girl who just Hints, She will just get ignored Because to us it can look Rude and Selfish.
i actually never had this problem. Every time I put out a hint, he usually notices. The problem is not with him, its you. your hints are too light. you aren't afraid of making bold hints because you are afraid he might reject you.
I am sorry but subtle clues get men in trouble. Men can see something as a subtle clue and make a move of flirt and the girl get all upset because it was not what the guy thought it was, and now he is a pervert of some kind and the girl doesn't want to be around him anymore.
I think its either they’re clueless because they’re not interested at all, or have low confidence that they convince themselves a girl is just being friendly… im not a guy tho so dont come at me
One of the myriad ways we are different is emotional intelligence. Women are just better at it and always will be. As such, it is unreasonable and illogical to expect men to compete at the same level on the same playing field in that regard.
No, they're not. They really are, for the most part, as you stated, clueless. About flirting and about being flirted with. I am not, but even my married friends, their wives make unspoken I inuendos all the time and they don't pick up their cues. Like they're oblivious
Sorry most of us are clueless when it comes down to women. Hinting is not good for either sexes. Sometimes you have to get to the point of what you want. if it is sex you can come in a room dancing around in front of us naked, we would eventually get the hint.
Whatever happened gradually along the way of time produced a reluctance among us guys to attempt flirtation. Women act all paranoid and scared if you show any kind of interest, so we stopped.
Games are for children. Just say what you want. Until you have asked for something and been denied, you have no basis for complaint. If you grew up in a home where plain speaking was punished, get some counseling and learn to live with normal people.
Men are direct. Most don't play those psychological games.
You either tell him, "Hey, I really like you," or you keep disappointing yourself.
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No most are not, or they might think you're just being ''friendly'' and they don't want to risk anything because they mistook a girl (s) just being friendly with them before. Just tell them straight up want you want or feel, it's much better and easier for us.
Most guys (me included) do not get subtle hints, so why do you women keep trying that? And then blaming the guy for not getting it? Just tell us what you want.
I was able to regain my husband with the help of Dr BOB love spell after some hot chick turned his head against me and totally stoped giving me attentions. Dr. BOB saved my home with his powers and that's why I'm putting this here for anyone that's going through the same. Plus do not be fooled by so many testimonies here because there is no one like Dr BOB love spell. you can contact him through his email address; t999219@gmail. com or whatsapp him on +1 (614) 927-8138
Because it is ambiguous, every hint you do can mean litterly nothing. So in todays climate it's easier to treat it as nothing instead of reading a woman wrong.
Because women is little hard to understand 😅 sorry and also when we express my emotional felling maybe we didn't observe eighter she likes or not 😅 maybe
Can I ask, why not just be crystal clear? Instead of dropping clues to the murderer, why not just tell him who it is? Get what I'm saying? What's the point of being subtle?
He could be too busy to date you. Unless you're hinting that you just want sex. You weren't very clear about weather you're hints were implying a relationship or just sex
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You Girls think Hinting is enough all the time when it's obviously not yet you still keep on Hinting.
If Hinting doesn't work it means you need to take action, You Girls are so afraid to be Straight forward because you might be perceived as too slutty or something, A girl who takes action is way more Attractive than a Girl who just Hints, She will just get ignored Because to us it can look Rude and Selfish.
i actually never had this problem. Every time I put out a hint, he usually notices. The problem is not with him, its you. your hints are too light. you aren't afraid of making bold hints because you are afraid he might reject you.
Because you must understand that they don't do hints and subtlety. As soon as you realize that, it becomes child's play.
I am sorry but subtle clues get men in trouble. Men can see something as a subtle clue and make a move of flirt and the girl get all upset because it was not what the guy thought it was, and now he is a pervert of some kind and the girl doesn't want to be around him anymore.
It is best to be direct with him...
I think its either they’re clueless because they’re not interested at all, or have low confidence that they convince themselves a girl is just being friendly… im not a guy tho so dont come at me
One of the myriad ways we are different is emotional intelligence. Women are just better at it and always will be. As such, it is unreasonable and illogical to expect men to compete at the same level on the same playing field in that regard.
No, they're not. They really are, for the most part, as you stated, clueless. About flirting and about being flirted with. I am not, but even my married friends, their wives make unspoken I inuendos all the time and they don't pick up their cues. Like they're oblivious
Sorry most of us are clueless when it comes down to women. Hinting is not good for either sexes. Sometimes you have to get to the point of what you want. if it is sex you can come in a room dancing around in front of us naked, we would eventually get the hint.
The thing is, you women think what you give are "hints", but it's not. Want a guy? Be more direct. Show him, but show him really.
I'm not telling you to jump at his pants and suck him dry in public, but a more direct approach will give more results.
Whatever happened gradually along the way of time produced a reluctance among us guys to attempt flirtation. Women act all paranoid and scared if you show any kind of interest, so we stopped.
Games are for children. Just say what you want. Until you have asked for something and been denied, you have no basis for complaint. If you grew up in a home where plain speaking was punished, get some counseling and learn to live with normal people.
why give hints when you can communicate clearly… lol
Men are direct. Most don't play those psychological games.
You either tell him, "Hey, I really like you," or you keep disappointing yourself.
No most are not, or they might think you're just being ''friendly'' and they don't want to risk anything because they mistook a girl (s) just being friendly with them before. Just tell them straight up want you want or feel, it's much better and easier for us.
Most guys (me included) do not get subtle hints, so why do you women keep trying that? And then blaming the guy for not getting it? Just tell us what you want.
I was able to regain my husband with the help of Dr BOB love spell after some hot chick turned his head against me and totally stoped giving me attentions. Dr. BOB saved my home with his powers and that's why I'm putting this here for anyone that's going through the same. Plus do not be fooled by so many testimonies here because there is no one like Dr BOB love spell. you can contact him through his email address; t999219@gmail. com or whatsapp him on +1 (614) 927-8138
Because it is ambiguous, every hint you do can mean litterly nothing. So in todays climate it's easier to treat it as nothing instead of reading a woman wrong.
Because women is little hard to understand 😅 sorry and also when we express my emotional felling maybe we didn't observe eighter she likes or not 😅 maybe
Can I ask, why not just be crystal clear?
Instead of dropping clues to the murderer, why not just tell him who it is? Get what I'm saying? What's the point of being subtle?
He could be too busy to date you. Unless you're hinting that you just want sex. You weren't very clear about weather you're hints were implying a relationship or just sex