So a manther who dates girls 20 years younger is a ‘pervert,’ so would all Y’all call a cougar who dates guys 20 years younger also a ‘pervert’?

[HippieVeganJewslim]

I am sorry. I don’t like the word ‘pervert,’ but that’s what many would call such a manther (guy who dates younger girls). When I dated Katyusha and Dawn Marie, and kissed Shannon twice, all three of whom are more than 20 years older than I, I viewed neither as a pervert. They all might just have a crush on me, but that happens to the majority of people, no big deal. If Your answer is no, are Y’all being sexist? If Your answer is yes, then those three women must’ve been perverted.

[Chazmatazz269]

Ell oh ell!
The fact that you made up a word for it should be a clear sign that you’re on the wrong side of the argument. It’s SO normal and acceptable for men to date younger that there literally isn’t a word for it, as long as everyone is age of consent obviously. But when women date younger, we immediately feel the need to label them some way. Ell oh ell!

[HippieVeganJewslim]

I found the word ‘manther’ on Wiktionary: (Canada, US, slang) A man who actively seeks the casual, often sexual, companionship of younger women, by implication a “sexual predator”. I just find it offensive to call companions ‘sexual predators.’ Sex ≠ love

[Chazmatazz269]

Admit it…. you “found” it there after you put it there! Ell oh ell! Nobody says that! Maybe we should though cuz it’s frigging hilarious! Haha!

[HippieVeganJewslim]

No, I didn’t invent that word. I was actually looking for a word equivalent to a cougar, but with the genders flipped.

[loveslongnails]

Nothing wrong with either. I never understood why an older person who is attracted to a younger person who's obviously in better shape gets called perverted. Seems to me that a 50-year-old guy who finds 75-year-old women attractive, as opposed to 25-year-old women, is WAY more perverted!! LOL

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Thanks for Your opinion.

[annabananna]

Neither is a pervert

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Thank You so much for saying so.

[annabananna]

Thanks for MHO

[HippieVeganJewslim]

No problem! I love Your straight opinion. 🖤

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, never fails to happen among both genders

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Nu, I ain’t sexist.

[Berethor]

Yes the woman is also pervert, but many feminists are seeing that as empowerment.