How can I brush them off?

[malwins]

Yet again i have been sitting in a bar this familiar face comes in we chit chat snd then he sdks me for my number. I have to yet again say no i dont

i met him i a club snd then 3 times outside randomly

i wsnt to continue being friendly with him but i dont want him to be trying to get in my pants!

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+1 y

I mean so am k supposed to give him my nunber and then pretend he doesn't wanna fuck me?

[Shy_Steve]

If you keep being nice with him he is going to think you like him so it's up to you, You can ignore him or can just tell him that you don't want to give him your number, But if you just tell him he is probably not going to want to keep talking to you.

[MrCommodore]

What do you want? Do you like this guy and just don't want him coming on too strong?

Its easy to brush a guy off nicely, but its better to understand what you want before doing so.

[malwins]

Yesh i like him but he needs distance

[MrCommodore]

Your question made it sound like you are the person who needs distance, like he is constantly seeking your number.

[malwins]

We originally met on a party in Nov 2018!!! he's been wanting it since then

[Anno2]

Just tell him u like to remain friends and nothing more. If he stops talking to you after that you were right about him.

[malwins]

I want to be friends from afar. Once he has my number he is gonna be sll over my whatsapp

[Anno2]

Good luck with that. You have different emotions so it will always be a struggle with him.

[Bklynbadboy12]

You can choose to deal with or not deal with whom ever you choose but if you don't want to deal with him just simply don't take his number tell him no thanks. Your problem is your to nice and people take your kindness for weakness

[Guanfei]

Say you don't want to give him your number, and if he continues you'll file a complaint for harassment.

[malwins]

Yesh but the point is i have no problem being friends w him but no sex

[malwins]

Or r we supposed to pretend this is not why he took my nunber

[Guanfei]

Seems like he has a problem with being just friend, and can't take no for an answer, so you'll have to go further.

[Andres77]

If you're not interested and you tell him no... then the time to be polite is over.

[Guardian45]

Some guys are dense and need direct instruction. Tell him firmly, you're NOT interested & STOP contacting me!

[Amur8711]

Don't give in. Worst come to worst you could get a restraining order.