Should I flirt with a guy by teasingly saying that I should probably go and get plastic surgery so that he'll like me as much as I like him?

[Bethany22]

I am sexually attracted to a guy primarily because of his strong moral principles, and because of that I also like his physical appearance. But I know that men aren't wired to be aroused by women for those same reasons unless it's after they find her appearance physically attractive first, whereby her altruistic personality helps maintain and increase their attraction towards her. So can I humour that phenomenon with my crush in order to confess my interest in him and turn him on, or is it more likely to just make me look insecure?

[StormChaser838]

Never be little yourself in front of a person you like. Try and flirt with another guy near him and see his reaction, now just a slight flirt, you don't want to give him the impression you are everyone's gal. If he tries to get involved in the conversation you are having with the other guy, then straight away u know he likes you. Also, remember there are many fish in the sea, meaning there are loads of guys who would die to be your gal, so any which way things go with him does not matter much. A crush is just a crush.

[William222zzz]

instead of surgery, how about doing funnactivities together like movies and eating?

in terms of teasing him and turning him on, try challenging him to a friendly wrestling match? It’s not sex, but it will tease himnand turn him on, whil building a close and fun relationships with him.

[Guy13]

No as that reveals a plastic nature as related to your inner self. You are not happy with who you are. And you self-inflict or self degrade. None of those things are attractive to a serious man looking for stable wife and baby momma. "She's definitely not what I initially thought... glad I discovered that now than later."

[melanieeeB]

Eww no, why would someone do that? Please go and work a little on your confidence and self worth/love...

[Mansearching]

Why are you complicating things? If you like him ask him out. Don't complicate things. I asked my girlfriend out 12 years ago. We've been together ever since except a few months.

But I just asked. She said yes. What's the worse he can say? NO. Then find someone else.

It seems you have no idea what you're doing.

Harsh? Its called the truth.

[loveslongnails]

Ummm... if you said that to me I'd just laugh and take it as an overly flattering kind of joke. I might respond " hmm, do you give blow jobs with that mouth too?" LOL

[Stoner710]

Probably not the plastic surgery joke because it would indicate you’re fake (not saying you are fake). Just tell him you like him and don’t use some corny joke. I know men are suppose to make the first move but at least let the guy know.

[jshm2]

No. Firstly he's got shit "moral principles" if he falls for your ruse. Secondly, that he's still keeping you around, means he sees you as someone of value.

Revel in that, instead of fucking things up.

[Sparkie460]

That's a very different approach. It might get his attention

[Roadcruiser1]

That would actually have the opposite affect. Especially if it was used on me. Just ask him out.

[Mayo503]

No not really why you thinking like that for…?
If you like someone just go for it…!!
But in the past it got me into trouble….🙈
Not sure how but it has….
😂

[Charlesbrandonf]

Everything is fair in love and war. Do you have questions?

[pizzalovershouse]

No bad idea just makes you look silly to him an not worth getting to know

[Stevefiveo]

That could work. I would say yes. That sounds like a good pick up line.

[Driven9000]

Don't change yourself for nobody if he likes he wouldn't care.

[msc545]

That is sort of silly. Maybe just tell him you are attracted to him?

[shortster]

You shouldn't get plastic surgery to get someone to like you.

[Luffy1990]

No flirt by being yourself

[es20490446e]

Such comment is a turn off for me :P

[AngryCarl2]

God no, he'll think you're retarded.

[KrakenAttackin]

Chasing Chad's will always end the same way.

[LemiaOfThunder]

Its up to you