How can I get the fitness instructors attention?

[Living-the-ADvenTURe]

I have been attending boot camp all summer. I have a huge crush on one of the instructors but I'm too shy to flirt with him or show interest. He is impressed by my performance and my flexibility, and they make comments about it. After boot camp I would go and do another workout for two hours and he made comments about that too.

I didn't go to boot camp for two weeks, and one of the ladies who work at the gym told me that they missed me at boot camp. I was like "really?" and she said, well he does (she said the one I have a crush on's name). I missed boot camp anyway and I started going again. (not just because of him) I acted more confident now and I tried giving him a bit more attention but I'm too shy to actually flirt with him.

I also worry that he might have a girlfriend...But so far some signs show that he doesn't. There are only three sessions left of boot camp and I really want him to know I'm interested and I want to make an impression on him. I really want him to ask me on a date! He is giving me extra time after boot camp next session to help me with something but that's the best I could come up with... Any suggestions or advice? I would never have the guts to ask him out myself.

[Anonymous]

Wear sexier outfits that accentuate your best features. If you have good boobs go with something formfitting that shows them off. If you have a nice ass opt for yoga pants with no panties. It'll all get noticed.

Then, ask him to help stretch you after class. You can talk while he stretches you. If you flirt a bit he'll have a green light to ask you out if he's interested.

[Living-the-ADvenTURe]

Thanks, I have a small waist with full butt and big boobs so that won't be hard. I've got my yoga pants and my tight black workout top ready to go. I think he might already have noticed my body, and we did chat before and he did help me stretch. I need to gather the courage to flirt with him though! lol... Gotta say though, I'm for sure going to be wearing my underwear to work out. Thanks.

[Opinion Owner]

Well, that sounds like a great start! How big are your boobs? What do you usually wear up top? And when did you notice him noticing your body? What in particular does he seem most drawn to?

[Living-the-ADvenTURe]

He doesn't seem like that type of guy. Seems like he cares most about the personality. He slept in this morning so he wasn't there...Only two classes left with him and time is running out! I often end up sounding like I have no confidence when I talk to him because he makes me feel so shy! I keep messing up it's horrible therefore he can't get to know me well... I'm a DD and my butt is of an even proportion. He's impressed by how flexible I am and how much endurance and stigma I have when...

[Living-the-ADvenTURe]

...I do the workouts. I just feel like time is running out and I was very disappointed that he slept in this morning... I did see him and said hi and small talk, but I think I probably sounded stupid and like I had no confidence. Feels like this is going to go nowhere because he's out of my league!

[Living-the-ADvenTURe]

This really sucks for me :( I just really want to grab his attention and I want him to ask me to go out sometime.

[Opinion Owner]

Wow. If there's one thing a girl who's flexible, in shape and is gifted with DDs should have LOTS of it's confidence with guys! If he seems attracted to your personality too, you're in REALLY good shape. The ONE thing that could be stopping him right now is that he's at work. So he needs to see you outside of work when this is all done. That's actually easy enough to do. All you need to do is next time you chat with him you say, "hey, I can't believe the class is finally over!" (cont'd)

[Opinion Owner]

"It's been really awesome talking with you during these classes. We should do this again! Let's exchange numbers and grab coffee!" Then you can set up a coffee date and he'll take it from there if he's interested. (And there's a good chance he will be I think.)

[Living-the-ADvenTURe]

that it was his idea to take time once a week after boot camp to show me upper back exercises to help me with my soar back. He used to also stay with me for a bit and we would stretch together...When I wrote a feedback form for him, he also asked me to bring it to him directly for some reason and I think he liked it because I made it very sweet. Then the next day his house burnt down...Now all changed.

[Living-the-ADvenTURe]

I don't know how to get his attention again...

[Living-the-ADvenTURe]

have no guts to ask him to hang out...I want to somehow get him to ask me out...

[Living-the-ADvenTURe]

He might not even be interested...He is nice to everyone so I may just be some random girl to him...I think I am actually...

[Opinion Owner]

Holy crap! His house burned down? Jeez! That's crazy! How's he handling it?

[Union_Black]

Tell him you think he's attractive.

People can't control who they are attracted too.

[Living-the-ADvenTURe]

Yeah...I'll try to sneak that in...will probably sound like too much though! ha ha this is what I wish I could tell him because I honestly believe this "he has a very nice personality and it shines through and makes him even more attractive than he already is" I wanna tell him that but I might chicken out and it might weird him out too...or make him feel awkward... Also, I'm not sure if I should tell him he's attractive or handsome.

[Living-the-ADvenTURe]

lol...We don't really talk anymore than what is normal for him with others. He can't be attracted to my personality because I get into my working out mode and my social skills go out the door during that time. When I do talk with him, I can't fully be myself, I tend to be a bit reserved and say stuff like "If that's okay with you" to him and it makes me look confidential... I am usually pretty outgoing... He doesn't show any interest in me that he doesn't show others...Well, except for the fact

[Living-the-ADvenTURe]

Yeah I know... I couldn't sleep the night I found out... He is handling it pretty well, but I did tell him if he needed anything I knew places that could donate stuff, he said he would let me know. But he never asked for anything. It`s been about a month now since it happened, and it`s sad because he is just such a great person. Anyhow, many people including his family and work helped him out, but I only get to see how he`s doing on the surface since I am just a random person.

[dzj0316821951]

Let him to see this what you said