I met a girl during my first college semester like 9 months ago and at first I think we both had feelings for each other but we’re both very shy so neither of us did anything about it. I think she had mentioned to a mutual friend that I “friend zoned” her by accident because I’m really bad at romantic cues.. but anyway, we stayed friends and I figured she’d probably lost feelings after awhile so I never pursued it. The next semester we spent a lot more time together because we had the same classes. We got a bit closer over those few months, but not crazy close or anything.
Now that summer is here, she invited only me, although we have many mutual friends, to see a movie and stay over her house for a night. I had agreed, but then she changed the plan from stay over at her house, to stay at a hotel instead. now I usually don’t like making assumptions, but I can admit that it sounds kinda odd, doesn’t it? is it possible that she may be trying to make a move on me or something like that? I do still kinda like her a bit so maybe I’m looking too deep into it, and I don’t wanna assume that she may be trying to come on to me or something so I wanted some extra opinions. Thanks!
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I don't know buddy , you know if you look at your writing you are still making assumptions nothing concrete still though.
And if you saying that she loosen feelings once so might be she had. She might just like to have a friendship with you coz it's hard to find a good guy like you.
Duuuh? WTF do you think? Any overnight one-on-one meeting is an invitation to sex.
Had a female friend that did this. Its more or less a vacation from the folks and daily stresses. We just watched bad movies the whole night. She wasn't into me in the slightest.
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