I am thinking of hurting people to impress women since almost all my bullies are married, but I and other good people I know are single, is it normal?

[Anonymous]

Let us not be politically correct, bad people impress mates more than good people. I noticed that almost all my bullies are married, both male and female. While most good people I know are single.

So it makes me wonder, should I start breaking the law and hurting innocent people in the name of impressing women? What should I do if I am a geniunely good man and find it difficult to impress women?

[inhua]

ask Jeremy how he does it. the dude has a full-blown criminal record but women don't care and still find him attractive

https://www.youtube.com/embed/vmcKVzRUJK0

studies actually show bullies have more dating and relationship success than the victims they bully.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3177486/Child-bullies-sexier-popular-dates-victims-grow-new-research-suggests.html

https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.1177/1474704915613909

https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s40806-017-0126-4?shared-article-renderer

people will claim this due to confidence but confidence is actually a matter of perspective depending on how the Halo Effect/Devil Effect chooses to operate

https://www.youtube.com/embed/auJr9CASLQQ

for you though, it's a little too late for that. your opportunities to have bullied someone slipped away the moment you graduated college. people can tolerate bullying from kids to adolescents, not adults

[Asker]

It's not just male bullies. Female bullies also have better luck in romance as well.

[EricSummer]

Some women go for bad guys, but they are only a minority. If you are naturally a good guy you are not suitable for them, and nobody can cover the whole market.

More women look for a nice boyfriend. Still, you cannot be too harmless or to boring. Challenge them a bit. On a date, make them decide how far they want to go and test limits. Build intimacy with them, not only familiarity.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you just aren’t attractive to women, whether it’s your looks, height, character, etc. Like to me it sounds pretty red flaggy and weird to think women specifically seek men who break the law and hurt people. I’m sure these women pick up on that pretty quick too and they’re not into that.

[Asker]

It's not just males. Good women stay single more often as well, while bad women marry more.

[Sharkstealth]

Your definitely right! Women don't see behind the scenes. I have known quite a few women who were raped by athletes 1 of which committed suicide. I had a male friend also commit suicide from the cause of athletes. There is a Grimes song about her being physically assaulted by an athlete. The hook is I'll see you on a dark night. Grimes is very abstract in her lyrics and pokes fun at situations without obvious acts.

[Kiss_Me]

You will make women feel unsafe, and they will avoid you like the Plague.

Work on your inner game and stop coming up with excuses for your failures. Remember the story of the two wolves. Which one do you want to feed?

[LiamJHayden]

Bad idea.