Waitress touched my boyfriends arm flirtily, how to react?

[Anonymous]

When I’m out and about with my boyfriend, I notice that women can get abit flirty with him. The other day I walked into a restaurant and the waitress laughed flirtily about something with him and touched his arm. How do I react to this? I guess just ignore it?

[rukus88]

The LAST thing you want to do is get mad at him for other peoples actions. After that just talk to him in a respectful conversation about it. Work it out together and remember you both should have each others best interest in mind

[richardcory]

Just view it as funny. Its probably an ego boost to him - and that is fine, everyone likes at least some attention.

[Anonymous]

Yeah just ignore it. You chose a hot guy. A hot guy will always get more attention. You’re gonna have to put up with women themselves at him 🤷🏻‍♀️

and him potentially having the ability to cheat 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Whatthefluff]

Waitresses sometimes flirt because they have a tip and service-based income. It’s nothing to really be concerned about.

[rukus88]

hookers, if they are using their bodies for money, their hookers. Women wonder why men are so confused about signals when they are constantly manipulated with sex.

[Whatthefluff]

@rukus88
Where did I say anything about hookers?

[rukus88]

you didn't, you used the work waitress

[Summeroflove]

Well you can give a dirty look as well as talk to your boyfriend about this but keep in mind he can’t control what other people do as long as you trust him and he’s not someone who will cheat he won’t.

Sometimes it could be legitimate flirting assuming he’s attractive but a lot of times they’re doing it for tips. If someone’s touching me unwanted I’ll ask them “can I help you?” and they tend to take their hands off me.

[RyanK9b]

If it interest based be happy about it that he is such a handsome dude.

In the end is it attracting for you if he has options. Just make sure you are the main girl.

[Anonymous]

The only real answer is to kill the b**** and claim insanity in court

[Anonymous]

Let it go ffs.