Is asking for a girl their socials a good step to get closer to them or will I get friendzoned because of it?

[Anonymous]

[Pinay_ako]

Baby steps. Don’t get discouraged right away. If she’s showing some interest, work your way in to show her you want more than just being friends.

[Rei13]

I mean you can do that but honestly you should try to actively spend time with her and get to know her. I know with my boyfriend we started out as friends and went to the gym together consistently, we started dating within 3 months. It’ll either happen or it won’t, but I think actively planning activities together are more important than just being friends on social media

[lorenzomichael]

Fuck all that shit if your feeling her and you think she might be feeling the same way just ask her out. She'll let you know, if not directly indirectly. You just have to read it. Fuck the friend zone. Us guys cannot be friends with any girl it just doesn't work. Unless you're gay.

[OlderAndWiser]

Why don't you just try the direct approach and ask her for a date?

[Kabluie]

I did it last month recently, before we parted ways we did the add to social thing as she was visiting from Italy. It's a long game and we'll meet again.

[rachel776]

every guy does so she won't see it as anything special

[Anonymous]

Social media and texting are both epic fails and childish. Learn real communication and you might get somewhere,

[Asker]

I meet them in person and that's what I got from it.

[-ann-]

That’s not entirely true. Actually a mix of both is perfect. We are in 21st century and have to adapt, social media has made a huge difference both negative and positive in building/destroying relationships, it depends how you choose to use it.

[slatyb]

Just invite her to lunch or dinner or coffee or whatever and talk to her face to face.

[Friendlybro79]

I'm so out of the loop it took me a moment to realize you meant social media and not her social security number hahaha

[SolitarySolace]

You'll probably end up on the wrong side of a restraining oder or even an ex parte ppo depending on whether or not she finds you attractive.

[Anonymous]

how is that an automatic friendzone? firstly, it's a way to communicate. and then the universe will decide if it can be taken further.

[Singlebutthriving]

Ask her out Anon with an activity you enjoy so you feel comfortable.

"Hey... join me for... at (place and time)"

Remember, from a secure place, you are trying to see if they are a fit for you.

[LiamJHayden]

Ask her out. If you click, you'll get her socials. If you don't click, you'll save the time of plotting and planning for weeks or months.

[TallAnon]

Everyone's different, do what makes sense to you. If she doesn't respond positively, there will be a next girl.

[JesseP1nk]

Why are you so afraid of getting friendzoned? All that needs to happen, happens does not matter if you were friends before or not

[Grovermint]

If you already know her somewhat, ask her out.

[sheikalana]

I guess it’s a good way.

[Anonymous]

go for the number