Is cold approaching a girl to say hi considered offensive or disruptive?

[Anonymous]

[Sodomite]

Ah, you're asking about cold approaching a girl to say hi? Well, let me tell you, my friend, it all depends on how you approach her. If you walk up to her with confidence, introduce yourself with a smile, and engage in a conversation without coming across as creepy or pushy, then no, it's not offensive or disruptive. But if you come at her like a slobbering dog, drooling over her tits and trying to sniff her crotch, then yes, you might as well be waving a giant neon sign that says "I'm a sexual predator". ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ ﾠ

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[WilmaReportu]

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[Sodomite]

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[Inbox]

No, not at all. I cold approach all the time (I've approached thousands).

Just remember a few rules: 1) You can tell a girl's interest within the first 3 seconds of talking to her (if it's not a positive response, just walk way), 2) Be prepared for a lot of girls to say they have boyfriends, 3) Be prepared for random beta men to get mad at you (they'll think you're harassing her even though all you had was a 30 second conservation - it only happens once in a while, but weak men have always been annoying), 4) Demographics/Logistics are very important for the type of women you want to approach (For example, I like to approach in the Downtown area of my city or at a Barnes and Noble because girls are either professionals or just introverted smart girls who like to read) --- you will have to scout for places that have volume and the type of women you want to talk to (for example, I don't like talking to girls at bars, clubs, lounges, etc), and 5) Lastly, it is HOW you approach/angle that makes all the difference.

Goodluck!

[red324]

It's like their go to line. Oh I have a boyfriend after you spent 10 minutes talking to her.

[Inbox]

@red324 it depends on the girl. I’ve had girls tell me right away, others wait (simply because they’ve had guys blow up at them before), or they’re just trying to be polite.

[red324]

at least you can usually tell in 10 minutes if she's a good girl or not and in that case she probably does have a boyfriend

[red324]

Girls do the same shit though. I've had them get made at me for even asking them out. It's like how dare you think you have a chance with me😂 Guess she can be some other dudes nightmare

[Inbox]

@red324 I wouldn’t go as far as saying if you can tell if she’s a good girl or not in 10 mins. I’ve Gone out with rich successful girls who seem to have their shit together, only to be raging lunatics to where girls who come from no money are actually better girlfriends with low body counts. You’d be surprised how cynical the world can be over just a few simple observations.

Yeah, I’ve rejected girls in the past and many of them can be vindictive or go crazy lol. I can usually tell if a girl has a boyfriend based upon a number of factors, but I always still approach because you never know.

[red324]

Well I can tell if she's someone i'd want to date after 10 minutes of talking, lets put it that way since people change.

[Inbox]

@red324 Errr, either you have Superman like intuition or I think you’re not that experienced - a girl may be cool, but she could always have baggage or a past that you may not want to put up with which is why I try not to make too many assumptions upon meeting her.

[red324]

You have to start somewhere. Remember it sounds good at first because nobody comes out about those things until later on typically.

[sage2021]

If your intentions aren't going to be good and stay good, then just don't do it. Don't mess with her head. I can just hear her say "He came up to me and said hi, I didn't go to him, now he won't call or test. Does he do this to all the girls? Like a game or something?

[Bethany22]

No not at all. If she reacts offended, it's more about her

[red324]

Care to elaborate?

[coachTanthony]

Cold approach in a dark alley probably not a good idea. Someone at a magazine rack in a busy book store probably okay lol

[AviatorTom]

That's the pickup line I've always used. Perfectly acceptable. Sometimes, though, she will just ignore you. C'est la vie.

[Kokoaquest]

Personally I find that because I work in the inner city when I am approached it is about sex most of the times that I am approached. The men who approach me are very polite and friendly but their words tell me everything I need to know about their intentions behind why they have interrupted me and all times it's been about sex. I am not offended because I am aware of mans nature so I choose not to act afraid and upset when cold approached. I will assess his character and speak to him properly and politely decline his advance.

[RingOfFire]

They only approach you about sex? Couldn't have anything to do with your wearing see through lingerie with your private parts on display like the pics you post on the Internet could it?

NAHHHHH couldn't be that.

[Kokoaquest]

Lol no this isn't even my photo.

[RingOfFire]

😮
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[Saramad_Hill]

It's situational. I don't normally approach women I don't know whatsoever.
Some guys can make it work but I'd need quite a few hints before I'd bother taking even the slightest risk of annoying someone like that.
It definitely requires charisma, and an appropriate appearance to make it work.
It's not the only way to meet people, so no need to make it your primary method unless you're super cool with possible rejections.
Be sure to remain respectful if at all possible, whether it goes good or bad. Women are people, not challenges and conquests-- there's no Wiki you can look up to handle everyone. Some might like it. Some will not. React accordingly.

[Heolurt]

Definitely depends on your attractiveness, I have never had a welcoming reaction when I used to do this and even times when I wasn't but a guy better look than me could walk up to the same girl and suddenly she no longer has a boyfriend or a stare that says you're too ugly to come near me.

[BrownSugar00]

No it's not. But it's all about the "how" you go about the approach, especially nowadays.

[Valdemort]

If you'd go for "I just wanted to say hi" 😊 then, no.
If it's more like "hey" 😈👹👅😏👹
Then I'd recommend you don't.

[lightbulb27]

Bible says "words are like swords"

therefore, it can be assault with a deadly weapon... if interpreted that way. it's up to perception.

[red324]

True. Some people can almost always say all the right things.

[Nikki1989]

No, not at all. Men do it to me all the time.

[Tim2nice]

Are they successful?

[236color]

If she's attracted to you no, if not yes. The problem is you may not know which you are. Women will deny this, but sorry, it's obvious.

[Anonymous]

Just be careful. You don't want to be charged with sexual harassment.

[BoopBoopBeep]

No I talk to strangers all the time. Beats sitting around/standing around in silence.

[DextroShade]

If the girl finds it offensive it's a huge red flag.

[Unit1]

That depends

[RingOfFire]

If she thinks your hot it's perfectly okay, if she doesn't it's rude, offensive and disruptive.

[sparklycoconut]

somone's salty

[RingOfFire]

[love_conquers_lust]

I wouldn’t think the greeting would matter. It’s probably what follows where it could go south.

[Joshydavid25]

No, in fact it's probably better than being on dating apps, but also more work.. You just gotta know how to read the signs and be careful..

[m33ladEmjay]

If you're in Canada? THats pure harassment dont talk to girls in Canada..

If you're in the U. S outside of CALI / NYC / Miami DONT TALK TO GIRLS! thats pure harassment also.

[ProbablyClueless]

Depends on the context, but usually it would be seen as disruptive.

[Meropatrick]

I think its not that nice. Also why would u approach her. Probably to end up dating her. She might not trust to get that close to a stranger

[sparklycoconut]

not at all. who knows you can make a new friend or your new partner

[TacosRAwesome]

It's better than cold approaching to ask for money.

[Anonymous]

i personally don't like anyone coming up to me, regardless of gender. it is a bit disruptive in my opinion, yes.

[moviedude714]

Well I don't see this ever changing or going away just like how earthquakes and hurricanes will never go away

[zagor]

Depends on the circumstances.

Of course if you're not VGL she is much more likely to find it offensive and disruptive.

[Anonymous]

It mainly depends on the girl and the situation. It'd be more advisable in a looser atmosphere like a concert or music festival. Women are liqoured up and less inhibited.

[Anonymous]

It is if he's a guy I'm not interested in. Otherwise it's good.

[Anonymous]

IF you're UGLY, SUB5, BETA, MEDIOCRE

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[Staximus]

That depends on if she's attracted to you or not

[Minahh]

It's okay. You need to be polite and able to handle rejection in a mature way.

[Anonymous]

I dont like the idea of cold approaching unless it's spontaneous and unique. Doing it to dozens of women will blunt the effectiveness anyway. People can just sense when your heart isn't really into it.

[robocop666]

only if your bad looking. Not if your good looking.

[Anonymous]

Hi , no but after that it gets tricky and need to rely on body language afterwards

[purplepoppy]

It's considered creepy.

[Tiger288]

Lol that stupid but whatever floats ur boat it help me to weed out stuckup women

[Anemone978]

No I think it is totally fine..

[spartan55]

These days it certainly can be.

[Jazzy54]

Nope. That’s actually what I prefer. 😊

[Yannae]

I never had problems with that.

[WhyohWhy69]

No. People who think so need to chill out.

[Anonymous]

No, it is a friendly gesture

[In_Trance]

It's all in how you say it

[LunarEclipse433]

I wouldn’t think so

[NateR05]

Nah, just be polite