They are not responsive to phone calls or text.
They claim to be busy all the time but are out with friends often.
When the moments get personal, they avoid eye contact, as to dissuade you from trying to move in closer.
They pull back from physical contact.
You hug and they do not pull you in closer.
You ask them out and they say yes but will not confirm a date or time.
Whenever you try to talk about relationship topics, they get defensive. Gaslight or blame shift.
They avoid ever being alone with you.
They only want to text and never meet or make plans.
I mean honestly the list can go on and on.
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For every person it’s different. If they reject you, if they don’t seem like they want to talk to you, if they don’t really pay you any attention, your gut level feeling
OK. If you’ve never talked to them, their behavior is indicative. Someone who’s wearing headphones, or doing their own little thing alone, doesn’t want anybody talking to them. If you are talking to them however, throw in a compliment that’s not forward. Something subtle but romantic, like “You have a pretty smile.” Their response to that will let you know if they’re open to something with you, or they might deflect.
If they are - you will know.
If you ask a question- they, sadly are not interested.
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If they seem to act in a flirty way, such as sparkly eyes, giggling, and touching your arm, but then you see them acting like that towards someone of the same sex, then you know it's just their personality.
It's usually obvious when they don't respond positively to it
Not everyone likes to flirt at all times.
I’m not a flirtatious person and I dislike when someone I’m not in a relationship with is flirting with me 🤮
If u need someone to flirt with you at all times, that’s a you problem and not the other person’s.Probably they won't be really responsive.
Won't initiate conversation if it's not needed.
Won't try to continue small talk.
Can even avoid you in certain situations.If your attempts/gestures/actions aren't reciprocated. If i keep brushing you off, I’m not interested
If the other person always 'coincidentally' doesn't have time or doesn't respond to messages.
You get absolutely NOTHING from them , alouf , unreceptive
I’m really socially awkward so when a girl flirts with me I’m kind of standoffish and I try not to talk to her
girls I have no romantic interest in are easy to talk to
I have no idea, I could say when they don't respond fast or with one word response but it can also mean they're shy so
No eye contact and stone silence and head down. 😱🫤😮💨
Turning heads, ignoring... A slap in your face
They have their boyfriend or husband meet you at your car.
They clearly pay no attention to you. They very seldomly talk to you. They don’t flirt with you or laugh at your jokes. They never smile at you
My experience they are cold distant dont respond or short responses no or lack of eye contact insults or feeling of they are superior to you by their tone of voice, and facial cues
Doesn't engage in the conversation. Seems annoyed if you try to flirt with them.
they don't respond when you try to flirt with them.
He will be with you to avoid intrusive behavior, please do not give credit to such behavior, if someone wants, he will always be with you
Dude, if a woman is interested in you - YOU'LL KNOW!! Pay attention. If she shows no interest, you'll know!
If the other person doesn't smile, show any reaction, or do other things when you talk to him/her.
Avoiding association.
Being nice for them to f*** off.
Anything that is telling you they are not interesting in investing in you.
That is exponential grown overtime.
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