What are some signs that someone is not interested in flirting or romantic interaction?

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DaveJord · Accepted Answer

They are not responsive to phone calls or text.

They claim to be busy all the time but are out with friends often.

When the moments get personal, they avoid eye contact, as to dissuade you from trying to move in closer.

They pull back from physical contact.

You hug and they do not pull you in closer.

You ask them out and they say yes but will not confirm a date or time.

Whenever you try to talk about relationship topics, they get defensive. Gaslight or blame shift.

They avoid ever being alone with you.

They only want to text and never meet or make plans.

I mean honestly the list can go on and on.

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

For every person it’s different. If they reject you, if they don’t seem like they want to talk to you, if they don’t really pay you any attention, your gut level feeling

PrincessBunBuns · Accepted Answer

OK. If you’ve never talked to them, their behavior is indicative. Someone who’s wearing headphones, or doing their own little thing alone, doesn’t want anybody talking to them. If you are talking to them however, throw in a compliment that’s not forward. Something subtle but romantic, like “You have a pretty smile.” Their response to that will let you know if they’re open to something with you, or they might deflect.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

If they are - you will know.  If you ask a question- they, sadly are not interested.

Bethany22 · Answer

If they seem to act in a flirty way, such as sparkly eyes, giggling, and touching your arm, but then you see them acting like that towards someone of the same sex, then you know it's just their personality.

Avicenna · Answer

It's usually obvious when they don't respond positively to it

serious_miss419 · Answer

Not everyone likes to flirt at all times.
I’m not a flirtatious person and I dislike when someone I’m not in a relationship with is flirting with me 🤮
If u need someone to flirt with you at all times, that’s a you problem and not the other person’s.

VanityFair888 · Answer

Probably they won't be really responsive.  Won't initiate conversation if it's not needed.  Won't try to continue small talk.  Can even avoid you in certain situations.

DizzyDesii · Answer

If your attempts/gestures/actions aren't reciprocated. If i keep brushing you off, I’m not interested

Jasmin01 · Answer

If the other person always 'coincidentally' doesn't have time or doesn't respond to messages.

alice55 · Answer

I have no idea, I could say when they don't respond fast or with one word response but it can also mean they're shy so

molonski2 · Answer

You get absolutely NOTHING from them , alouf , unreceptive

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

I’m really socially awkward so when a girl flirts with me I’m kind of standoffish and I try not to talk to her  girls I have no romantic interest in are easy to talk to

colaman94 · Answer

No eye contact and stone silence and head down. 😱🫤😮‍💨

Constatine · Answer

Turning heads, ignoring... A slap in your face

Peter_Penetrator · Answer

They have their boyfriend or husband meet you at your car.

nastyb · Answer

they don't respond when you try to flirt with them.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

They clearly pay no attention to you. They very seldomly talk to you. They don’t flirt with you or laugh at your jokes. They never smile at you

loveslongnails · Answer

Dude, if a woman is interested in you - YOU'LL KNOW!! Pay attention. If she shows no interest, you'll know!

Tomisworthless · Answer

My experience they are cold distant dont respond or short responses no or lack of eye contact insults or feeling of they are superior to you by their tone of voice, and facial cues

sheikalana · Answer

Doesn't engage in the conversation. Seems annoyed if you try to flirt with them.

Anonymous · Answer

If you can't see when someone is not interested, you are probably not mature enough for any kind of relationship.

SoJust · Answer

He will be with you to avoid intrusive behavior, please do not give credit to such behavior, if someone wants, he will always be with you

Fromdusktilldawn · Answer

if they just laugh it off as a joke, remain in a serious tone or quickly change subject when being flirted at

Jonnywayne · Answer

If the other person doesn't smile, show any reaction, or do other things when you talk to him/her.

TheGuyYouCrave · Answer

Avoiding association.  Being nice for them to f*** off. Anything that is telling you they are not interesting in investing in you.  That is exponential grown overtime.

Anonymous · Answer

They keep conversations at an impersonal level. They change the topic when you flirt or you say something romantic. They make excuses not to go out with you

_NightGuard_ · Answer

I think it's not hard to understand, people are generally interested and want to be involved.

Alex-Snow · Answer

Lack of eye contact, poor body language and obviously no sex.

m33ladEmjay · Answer

You should know that within the first 3 minutes.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

You certainly wouldn't be able to tell by looking at me. I'm always interested but act like I'm not.

Starrrboy · Answer

They don't give you any attention / treat you like everyone else?

Benedikt_lol · Answer

Unless a girl straight up tells you she likes you, it’s safe to assume she doesn’t.

DreamLife7 · Answer

The sign is that you have to ask. Learn social cues

Holsgj · Answer

If they get uncomfortable and quite when you flirt with them. don’t push it, it could just be too soon

azgınteke · Answer

indifference indifference indifference indifference indifference indifference  indifference indifference

Anonymous · Answer

They don't laugh or smile when you are flirting with them.

whirled_up_girl · Answer

Not engaging in the flirting.

strateguy632 · Answer

when they avert their eyes away

RedInnocent68 · Answer

Not interacting. Anything less is gaming.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Unresponsive to overtures.

Iron_Man · Answer

When they don’t do it at all

boobliker · Answer

talking and asking them

Wise4myage · Answer

They just want to be friends.

Evelyn99 · Answer

They ignore you a lot

Masterodd · Answer

they dont respond to you.

Guardian45 · Answer

They ignore you or take a long time to respond

BLP11520 · Answer

That distant I don't want to be here look.

krin_m · Answer

They do not respond!

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

IF SHE'S TALKING TO ME.

Anonymous · Answer

They probably ignore you

Anonymous · Answer

They completely ignore you.

sheenagwapa · Answer

mad at you

In_Trance · Answer

They tell you so

Anonymous · Answer

Pepper spray.

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