Help With This Situation?

[Anonymous]

Hello, I'm 21 years old and in the Air Force and never been in a relationship before. I'm currently a full time college student as well and I'm currently trying to become a fitness influencer as well. I have been at Florida for 2.5 years and I usually do shopping at target. This girl works at target and when I first saw her in drive up (how I get my groceries). She repeatedly kept looking at me while I was in my car with windows up. The second time she came up to my car got the code and put the groceries in the back and when she left she looked back at me (walking from the back) and gave a smile and wave goodbye while my window was up and I waved back. What should I do if I'm interested?

[Oliverlogan263]

Here's what I'd suggest bro:

First off, way to go on noticing her interest! Sounds like she was definitely checking you out when you first met. Don't get ahead of yourself though - keep it cool.

I'd go back to that Target and scope her out a bit. See if you notice her looking your way again. If so, that's a good sign.

Next time you do drive-up, make sure you look extra fresh. Give her a big smile and a little wave. Maybe make a friendly comment like "How's your day going?" to open things up.

If she seems receptive, ask if she'd be down to grab coffee sometime when you're both off. Mention some interests you have in common, like fitness. Keep it casual though.

Worst case she says no - who cares, plenty of fish. But sounds like you've got a solid chance here my dude. Just be confident & nice. You never know what can happen!

Let me know how it plays out. Fingers crossed for ya bro, go get your girl!

[Decoded93]

Try chatting her up next time and if it goes well ask her for her Instagram or number or something, if she says no don't make a sudden attitude change, keep it friendly and fun and just say oh ok sorry that's fine, and keep talking, in the future she might change her mind, but accept that she might not be interested

If she does give you a way to contact her then chat her up some more and ask her a lot of questions about herself and eventually ask her if she'd like to get a coffee or something

[FutanariEnjoyer]

Just imagine that you're in the Navy, and that the woman you're talking to is another guy.

[tfan1]

Talk to her, make small talk, ask her for her phone number or give her yours, etc 👍🙂

[tfan1]

And thank you for your service 🙏🇺🇸🫡👍🙂