Girls, Have you ever considered dating an older guy?

[Anonymous]

Older guys are much more mature, settled and accomplished. I'm 24 and I recently started talking and flirting with a man who is 36, he is pretty fit and strong, and he has his own house which he lives alone in. He said his fiance died in a car accident ten years ago, and he hasn't been open to anyone since. I visit him at his home and he doesn't mind. He develops software, and in his spare time he lifts weights, trains MMA, and reads, and he always has something interesting to talk about. He takes good care of me when I visit him, and he recently asked me out. He again took good care of me, he drove, opened car doors, we went for a coffee, he paid. He drove me home and made sure I got home safe. On the date, he complimented me and made me laugh, and there was a lot of flirting and I was smiling a lot and he put his arm around me and tickled my waist, and we hugged at the door when he dropped me. Tall, strong, great job, gentleman, great interaction. Is there a catch?

[IslaTheWitch]

I would look from another perspective.

You can see what he can offer.

What you can offer to keep him with you? Are you able to keep him entertained? Interesting conversation topics? Hobbies? Occupation?

The relationship means both partner bring something what it is interesting for each other.

So what are you aiming for? A few dates? Sex? Something more?

In any case, think what you are bringing to the table.

[Apple1996]

Nah older men don't have the same sexual energy as younger men. For a relationship they might be a bit boring as well. I need excitement in my life and younger men can provide that for me

[nastyb]

He is almost 40. Once he hits his 40, you will find that his dick might not work so well. By the time you're 40, he will be nearing senior citizenhood which may impact your marital satisfaction. Most compatible relationships / marriages are when the age gap is 10 years or less. Your chance of divorce increases by 10% every additional year.

[SeaStorm1]

yep i have tried to date older men in there 30+ and they are not mature. i met immute older men and one older men did rejected me. yet i look younger then a 17 year old with baby face women. older men didn't want date me or to be in relationship. they all suck.

[SeaStorm1]

immature older men

[DizzyDesii]

I like to stay close in age but I’d go for younger over older. Im 28 and with someone 27. My range is ideally 3 up or down. But while in my 20s, I’d go for anyone in their 20s.

[Anonymous]

Go for him. I made the mistaketo marry a guy my own age guess what im divorce. Guys your age put mommy first before you. Their attention goes to his mommy. So yes dont waste your time with men your own age their immature mommas boys.

[Lizagirl123]

There are guys that are settled in there 20s too

[Tomuchdramagirl]

I have a teacher that is married to a guy who is 19 years older than her, and they have the best marriage ever it's so easy to see. Age doesn't matter with them and neither does it with anyone else.

[mandyfire98]

Im dating an older man now. I typically do.

[CrimsonAngel09]

I smell bullshit.

[Nikki1989]

I have always been with older guys.

[Altheavas]

Yes, why not!