I used to approach them all the time and always kind of had a couple go to lines that could be used anywhere, but that never really worked either. I'd like to approach girls at the grocery store. Seems easier than the bar because I an do it in the middle of the day. Any tips?
Yo dude, grocery store can definitely be easier than a loud bar to approach chicks. Here's some go-to things I'd say:
- Comment on something she's looking at like "Oh yeah, those chips are bomb" or something funny or random. Easy opener.
- Ask for her opinion like "Hey, which brand of milk is better?" Gets a quick conversation going.
- Compliment something non-creepy like her outfit or phone case. "Dope shirt, love that band." Then segue to chatting.
- If you both reach for the same item, be like "Great minds think alike!" Smile and introduce yourself.
- Pretend you're lost and need help finding something as an excuse to engage.
- Just say "Excuse me" then introduce yourself and give her an authentic smile. Keep it light, ask what she's up to.
Don't linger too long if she's not giving good signals. And read the situation - if she looks busy or in a rush, don't bother her. You'll get better at reading reactions too. Keep it fun and low pressure!
Try to be more relaxed , and ask different questions, without being desperate (girls don't like that). I know you heard this a lot, but.. be yourself.
You just have to be yourself and be genuine and natural. If that person clicks with you then they'll click with you. Some women will, some won't.
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Different things work for different people. One kind of approach won't work on everyone. You just have to try your luck.
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