Is walking up to women and saying "you're beautiful," an effective way to pick up women?

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Inbox · Accepted Answer

Okay, first don’t get advice on GaG because most people don’t know what they’re talking about. I get around 3 - 5 #s a week, approached thousands of women, and go out with on average 2 - 4 new girls every month.

Long story short, it is HOW you say it that matters. If you’re saying it like Arnold Schwarzenegger from Terminator, then it comes off as creepy and not genuine. If it comes from a genuine place, girls will sense it because of your tone of voice. There’s A LOT more than to simple pick up lines. Pick up lines are just to get the girl to open up to talk to you - most women are down to having a conversation, but it’s the angle and how you do it that matters.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It is if you’re cute, a Chad or Tyrone. Otherwise it’s sexual harassment. There’s no such thing as bad behavior, just ugly men. Meaning if you’re ugly she’s going to reject you. If you’re cute, you could be rude to her but she’ll still put up w it.

RavenDarkheart · Accepted Answer

Not necessarily, I hear that a hundred times a day. It’s better than most, I had one guy actually try to use the old “is that a mirror in your pocket, cause I can really see myself in your pants?”

7Phoenix7 · Accepted Answer

Maybe when you're a teenager, haha. My ex did that to me when I was in ninth grade. And I thought it was sweet.  But as a woman that wouldn't impress me. But I'd appreciate the compliment.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

My guess is that most women would think it was meaningless and shallow. If they just wanted a roll in the hay and thought you looked good, maybe it would work. . . but not with any woman who you would take home to meet your mother.

coachTanthony · Answer

Yes it works great on women who are not beautiful.

ImHere22 · Answer

No; although it is the perfect thing to say to a woman if your goal is to never speak to her again.
You’re a strange person to this woman. Hearing an unsolicited opinion from a complete stranger is 1) incredibly rude, 2) alarming- how long have you been watching her? Are you following her? If you get a no answer from her, are you going to continue following her or will you please leave her alone?

normalice · Answer

No, that's way too direct. You need to say it more subtly like "my God our children will be beautiful." This compliment works better the more unattractive you are because girls work backward to assume they must be even more attractive to make up for it.

Of course, because it doesn't show up in text, this is sarcasm..

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I don't think so. If she is beautiful, then she has heard it a million times. If she isn't, she will know you just hit on her...

Anonymous · Answer

I don't like being approached by this. How would you like to be approached all the time by people you don't know who say something to you like, "you have dark hair."

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Everything is effective or ineffective based on how you say it, who is saying it, and who you're saying it to. There's no magic line "open sesame" that's going to just arbitrarily make panties come off.

Billlewis · Answer

Whenever I say that, I say it very slowly, for dramatic effect -- 'You... are... so... beautiful'. And as soon as I've said that, all I'm concerned about is what I can do for her. 'May I please buy you a drink?'

lightbulb27 · Answer

30% of communication is words… what about the70% remaining. That is most important.  Learn the other 70%

robocop666 · Answer

If she likes you she will not care what you say. Read her body language from afar. look into the blackpill.

Anonymous · Answer

How about saying hi and take it from there. See if she's interested in talking/getting to know you. If you ask what her name is and she answers, but doesn't ask what your name is she isn't asking because she doesn't care. Just use common sense really

RingOfFire · Answer

Depends on what you look like.

jshm2 · Answer

No. They will think you were perving on them.

jaskin777 · Answer

No because u don't know if that woman has been hurt and is gonna get triggered

MemeSupreme · Answer

just be normal please just be normal 🙏 i hate compliments and being treated special by someone like being put on the spot

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

LOL noooo Maybe if she was checking you out first and you did it mad smooth

Anonymous · Answer

It doesn't always work... especially if you are unattractive

Anonymous · Answer

No, not effective. Find another compliment that isn’t physical. Or just ask her a question that isn’t sleazy.

nawtee_me · Answer

I often tell women that they are pretty. Actually I say that I hope you don’t mind me saying that you are absolutely gorgeous and I hope you have a wonderful day. It is usually in passing as I don’t hang around. I am not doing it to flirt.

Nikki1989 · Answer

It is just as good as any other line.

RebelinSteel · Answer

Nah, that is possibly call the police time, this is going to be the case if not a local.

JHAYES317 · Answer

No. An effective way to pick up women is to bend down, grab their back with one arm and their legs with the other and then hoist up horizontally

boggboss · Answer

Not if u pull that face no

SotiCoto · Answer

No. And neither is telling them to "open bob" nor calling them "bitch lasagna".

Anonymous · Answer

No. Do it this way:

Dreamclouds · Answer

No, try to make a more elegant poetic compliment if you really want to go this path, show some creation and intelligence and you should be fine they may actually respond

SolitarySolace · Answer

If you want to risk ending up in jail if she doesn't immediately like you.

Zestyassmf1997 · Answer

Probably not. They’ll probably just say thank you…or call the police.

Anonymous · Answer

No. Men say that all the time in passing it dnt even sound special coming from a stranger

678987 · Answer

no, total fail. don't even start

gorydetails · Answer

Not in the slightest.

brightpapaya · Answer

No it's not.

zagor · Answer

I would suspect not.

Notherndude84 · Answer

Not really.

riverrat3 · Answer

It may work on a few, but not many

laly520 · Answer

not most of time

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

No….

litty736 · Answer

It can be.

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