I'm 32 She's 18 am I a bad person for thinking about her?

[Anonymous]

I'm a supervisor at a visitor attraction. Recently, the daughter of one of the managers in the on site restaurant has started working in the restaurant. She always smiles at me but is quite shy as I am. She is absolutely gorgeous and I am quite taken with her.

As I said, she often smiles at me when our eyes meet and has made conversation with me about how much she loves my classic cars.

I am unsure whether the attraction is mutual and am not comfortable making a move being that I work with her mum.

Am I a bad person for liking someone 14 years my junior?

You are

You aren't

[Anonymous]

someone isn't bad if they find an 18yo hot, since i mean its natural. but actually pursuing her at your age and thinking its okay it's pretty icky ngl. a lot of people on this site seem to be okay with barely legals dating old people cos if you haven't noticed most people on this site are social cases. so take their answers with a grain of salt, like if you ask the same question anywhere else on the internet you would get a very different response.. and probably would get shit on

i think you should definitely not pursue her, since she's basically a kid, fresh out of (or still in) high school, you'll basically be babysitting her aside from when you fuck her lol, you have nothing in common, and you'll get judged so much by everyone and people will call you a pedophile. on top of that you work with her mom... who would never in a millions years want her precious daughter to date an old dude she works with..

it's fine to like young people (i mean its biology) but at least wait until her age starts with a 2. anyone above the age of 22 dating an 18yo is icky (regardless of the gender)

[Jessica405]

O. Age difference is irrelevant. If it works, then nothing wrong with it.

[yepdonethat]

Nope. She's 18 and if she's available and she likes you, go for it! There are young women who like older guys and there are young guys who like older women. Absolutely natural occurrence and 100% moral and ethical. I was a young guy that liked older women. I still like older women. Not like elderly. But I have had women up unto age 60. I just like women. I like women 18 to 60. As long as you are moral, ethical, and legal, HAVE FUN MAN! Life is short. If the good time is there, get it! Only thing I will caution you on is you said manager's daughter. That can turn into some serious workplace drama, so that alone is not a good idea. Age is not the problem here, the problem is the proximity and the consequences of that. Think about the webwork here and the consequences. Remember that people are very childish and social and some people are easily offended, so this could turn into a huge workplace problem for you.

[sean1234]

Lol these answers, soo annoying. It's happened to me several times, they thought I was cute til I told them my age. 32/18 sounds about right give or take. I can't picture it.

"Ooops, he's old🧓👴"

🤷🏻‍♂️

[sean1234]

10 years seems to be a limit for most. Of course i thought those girls were way too young then.

[Avicenna]

You're both adults. It's totally normal to be attracted to young women.

[Anonymous]

You know these questions are phony when they start with things like, "Recently, the daughter of one of the managers in the on site restaurant..."

Might as well say, "bow-chik-a-bow-wow."

[sarahstar13]

Go for it, my husband is 7 years older than me so I see nothing wrong with the age. Good luck ;)

[PrincelyGlove]

do you mind if I ask you for some advice?

[Red_Arrow]

She is legally and adult. Thinking about her is not bad. However, if you act on it, she may reject you and her mother my cause trouble for you at work.

[Levin]

I think the age difference is fine, but her mum is going to want to kill you. Probably not wise to shit where you eat given it's your manager...

[HelpfulWoman]

ABSOLUTELY
when you go after BARELY TURNED LEGAL people, you're an absolute borderline PEDO.

[tremendousfern]

You're both adults. The only people who would say you're a bad person for being attracted to an adult are bitter old hags.

[laly520]

she is an adult but still too young for u

low chance it would work for u two

[tilly-32]

She is over 18. As long as everything is consensual its fine

[PeachyPie93]

It's a bit strange but to each their own.

[OtterMan68]

Thinking? No.
Acting upon it? Yes.

[Asker]

Thanks, that echoes my thoughts

[Anonymous]

No, that's fine.

[handsomelad70]

I wouldn't, because she's barely legal.

[strateguy632]

1st,

[Anonymous]

Go for it. Life is short.

[dean53AU]

Not at all