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He was usually super flirty, touchy and talkactive, seeked me out a lot, etc. He'd compliment me, offer to walk me home once he moved cities.
Then he moved to my city and I thought maybe we could start ahving more contact and hang out privately without other people and all but since he moved he got very distant. He still replies fast to texts but never texts me by himself and recently he has been more or less 'avoiding me' or well he is around me a lot and finds lame excuses to be around but doesn't talk to me anymore? Even when we are alone he is all quiet. Then when other people are there he will start teasing me again and banter.. but he's deffo less flirty / touchy. I don't understand him at all.
What Guys Said
Maybe he's got complacient about your feelings for him.
First, do you still give him thee green light to flirt with you? smile, encourage him to be close to you?
Assuming your still giving a green light and he's just not. As much as I hate to advise this as a guy I'd hate it myself, but, flirt with some other of the guys you find hot. Nothing serious, just remind him your not 'taken for granted'. I suspect if he's any kind of guy, he'll return to being more flirty and experience jelousy regarding you flirting with others.
It's also useful because if he doesn't get jelous and he doesn't try to flirt more with you then. It might be time to find a better crush.
I still smile at him, I still love talking to him or seek him out but he seems a lot more rushed or a lot more distant so naturally I pulled back myself in a way now because I don't know if I'd overstep a boundary if he pulls away that much... I don't want to be pushy yk.
Is that how it works? To me them flirting with others just kills off my attraction LMFAO. Oh god.. like if a guy gives me a reason to be jealous I just be like 'aight she can have you, you aren't for me'.
Do guy brains really work the opposite way?
I shall try my best to find anyone to flirt with I guess
Well, it is something that works to remind any partner whos forgotten your not a 'automatic given' for them. Not all guys work that way, just enough to be notable.
It is definitely a good thing to not let a partner get TOO comfy without earning that position of comfort / self asurance your his alone (meaning, he should make you feel special and amazing such that your happy restricting yourself souly to their company, and have them know thats how you feel).
Hope it works out. Either he'll wake up to the fact he's ignoring you or you'll find someone who doesn't (win-win).
Good luck.
Oh, and yeah, I do get what you mean. When someone is over popular, can be a sense of 'I don't need all that jealousy, thanks'. Though, keep in mind your not actually trying to win these guys over (so don't overdo the flirting) your just making your guy feel a little less self secure, and spur him to a little more attention for you.
Could be the move to a new city distraction