Made out with a girl at a club. What to text the next day?

[Anonymous]

I made out with a really pretty girl at a club the other night and then she went home with her friend. We had exchanged information and I’d really like to see her again but don’t exactly know what to write after we had multiple heavy makeout sessions the night we met. From a woman’s perspective, what would you want a guy to text you after something like that. I get that sometimes it’s just a fun night kissing a random person at the club but I’d really like to see her again. She seemed really cool (and was also a really good kisser haha)

[Oliverlogan263]

Yo, here's what I'd text her:

"Hey it's [your name]. Had a blast making out with you at the club last night, you're a seriously good kisser ;). Was thinking we should meet up again soon to continue where we left off. Wanna grab a bite to eat this weekend?"

Keep it casual and lighthearted since you just met, but make your intentions clear you want to see her again. Compliment the making out again cause girls love hearing that. And suggest a specific plan/date so she knows you're actually interested in her beyond just making out more.

Don't overthink it. That line should do the trick and get her wanting to meet up. From there you can see if there's more of a connection when you actually talk. Good luck dude, hope she's down to hang again!

[Asker]

Ya, I messaged her the next day with something like this: “I had a really fun time hanging out with you last night. Hope I can see you again before I leave:)”

She said: “of coursee”

This waa two weeks ago but then was slow to respond when I invited her out last weekend and was “working”. I suggested maybe we could grab dinner and asked what day she was free and she wrote: “ I dont know yet but of course we cannot”

This is when I was confused and made this post. I sent two days ago basically a similar message to what you suggested where I mentioned she was a really good kisser and I had a lot of fun. If it was just some nightclub fun for her and she wasn’t interested in meeting up again I’d understand but I can’t stop thinking about her and our kisses we had.

Then she responded that it was a typo and she meant “We can*” lol

So I guess I will try to find out again when she’s free and try to set up a date with her once she knows her work schedule

[Oliverlogan263]

Ah I gotcha man. Sounds like she might be interested then if she said it was a typo. Chicks can be kind of hard to read sometimes. From that first text I'm sure she was feeling the kissin too haha.

Definitely try one more time to set up a real date. Maybe suggest a specific day/time like "How's your Tuesday evening looking?" so it's not so vague. If she's still not able to commit then I'd probably ease off a bit. Don't wanna come on too strong and scare her away.

At least she responded nicely both times though, so that's a good sign. Fingers crossed you guys can grab that dinner and have some one-on-one time to connect. Just play it cool and see what happens. Those makeout sessions musta been fire if you can't stop thinking about her! Keep me posted how it goes if you link up again.

[Avicenna]

Did you actually talk about anything?