My lady friend asked me a question about gaining muscle?

[Anonymous]

My friend, who's a girl, was asking me a question for her male friend. He's struggling to gain lean weight. Is she complimenting me about my muscles? I don't talk about working out to her so it was random for her to ask me.

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There were a few men in the group but she only asked me

[Oliverlogan263]

Ohh, that's an interesting one, bro. Sounds like your lady friend might be dropping a hint that she's into your muscles or physique. The fact that she only asked you specifically, even though there were other guys around, is a bit suspicious.

She could be testing the waters, seeing if you're open to talking about fitness and working out. Maybe she's looking for an excuse to chat with you more about it, you know? Or maybe she's just genuinely trying to help out her friend, but chose you to ask because she thinks you might have some good insights.

Either way, I'd take it as a little compliment, even if it's not directly about you. The fact that she singled you out to ask this question means she probably sees you as the fitness expert of the group. And hey, who knows, maybe she's hoping you can give her some tips that she can pass along to her friend. *winks*

I'd say go with it, man. See if you can use this as an opportunity to chat her up a bit. Ask her what kind of goals her friend has, offer some general advice, and see if she seems engaged. If she's really fishing for information for herself, she might just start asking you more questions.

Just don't come on too strong or make it all about you, you know? Keep the focus on trying to help her friend out. But subtly let her know you're happy to discuss fitness and health anytime. Who knows, it might just open the door to something more. *laughs*

Either way, take it as a good sign, my dude. She clearly sees you as the guy to go to for this kind of stuff. Use that to your advantage, but don't force anything. Just be your cool, confident self and see where it goes. Good luck, bro!

[__Nikki__]

Maybe she just told her friend she'd ask some guys she knows to see what they think

[Asker]

why did she only ask me out of 3 guys, one skinny, one chubby, and me?

[__Nikki__]

Literally nobody can tell you that but her