Girl from gym did she show interest?

[ikonik]

she came in to my gym this morning, i told her nice shirt, she laughed. After, everytime she saw me she waived or smiled. when she left she said bye and waived first, is this anything?

[BriamG22]

Well she's being friendly, just keep interacting with her, see where it goes. Hard to tell whether someone's interested from brief interactions.

Do you know when she's gonna be there next? Perhaps you'd want to ask whether she'd wanna do some workouts together if you end up seeing her again.

Also make sure the gym allows you to hit on members, I know some gyms don't really like that.

Good luck brother! I'll be rooting for ya!

[mysteriousNicholas]

@briamg22 just for banter among men sake, can I say : imagine had it been a low-cut top or low cut tank top or even a bulging button up? Ah well. Anyways 😂 as I said earlier, I wouldn't pursue anyhow, I don't poop where I eat and someone would be cringey to find then have to find another gym if she went "oh I'm not into you / sorry I'm taken" 😆

[BriamG22]

@mysteriousNicholas Haha, yeah that's always an awkward situation. But yeah you'd usually just start by engaging in cordial conversation, dip your toes in the water first 🤣🤣. Scope out the landscape.

But I have the same mindset as you actually. When I go to the gym I just do the workout and leave. Not loitering around for anything else lol. Avert my eyes 😂😂😂.

[mysteriousNicholas]

@briamg22 same thing as near a waitress, a random woman at the beach, 🏖️ etc etc - Avert my eyes.
And the gay/bi guys I likewise avert my eyes as they need not apply 🤭

[mysteriousNicholas]

@briamg22 avert the eyes we must - even in public when the women be forking out for push up bra's under shirts and so forth 👕 "it's really just a big bra," 😄 - so I just avert my eyes. I know it's just a tease / hook line sinker gullible men 👀🤭

[BriamG22]

@mysteriousNicholas Wise words to live by 🤣🤣

[mysteriousNicholas]

@briamg22 especially without getting explicit here, say a man is single and they see a woman or see many women in any given week or month - if the guy is either an ass man or a tits man or both/neither - then no doubt they'll be disappointed if jeans/pants are misleading for a shapely figure ⏳ or if the chest is misleading 🧰 for size and shape - you gotta hand it to those designers of bras and of pants - illusions illusions 👀👀

[mysteriousNicholas]

I feel for most men on the daily, the word often isn't jealousy, you feel for them when they discover - disappointment 😥 lol in the dictionary a top worst word is - disappointed/ment. Ha!

[ikonik]

@mysteriousNicholas I work there so I'm trying to just make small talk and rapport

[BriamG22]

Are you allowed to hit on gym members as an employee? Hahaha

[ikonik]

I was really just making small talk

[slatyb]

It sounds like there is. Are you allowed to hit on the members?

[ikonik]

Well I work there

[mysteriousNicholas]

I don't poop where I eat 👀💩

Lessons to the wise 🦉

[mysteriousNicholas]

All I'd add is, if things went sour or went cringey, someone's to find another gym. Peace

[mysteriousNicholas]

Personally I love my life avoiding such embarassment - "George from Seinfeld used to say "fat, balding men who live with their parents don't talk to strange women" - while I or you aren't that full criteria, I for one are too lazy to find another gym if the response was "✓ I already have a boyfriend or girlfriend" lol cya ; no further replies