Girls, Do you think there's much variation in the way guys flirt with you?

[TheoD]

[ShellyB]

There are a few methods I have seen the most often but I would not say the methods are that unique, I think I could count them on one hand, but that is just a starting point and people are unique so that part can develop more as you get to know each other. But as for the methods, I have never tried to categorize them before but let me think. 1- sexual or appearance based comments or touching. 2- buying me stuff and then acting nice. 3- trying to make me laugh as an ice breaker. 4- trying to focus on a shared interest or possible shared interest like talking about a news story as a way of showing what he thinks is important that maybe I also think is important, or things kind of like that.

There have also been some guys who I know liked me but they would never just say it they were always trying to happen to be where I was and happen to be next to me I guess hoping there would naturally be a conversation (in some cases I know 100 percent that is what they were doing because their friends told me) but that doesn’t really work and when I am expecting him to say something and he never does it gets kind of annoying.

There are prob some other methods I am not thinking of right now. Of the four I listed I think any can work although personally I respond less to the first one now, however I unfortunately did respond to it sometimes in the past, and some of my girlfriends still respond to it so it is possible it can work, but I would say 2 3 and 4 are better choices. JMO!

[Zionne]

Yeah, for sure, some guys are smooth and playful, others are awkward but sweet, and some are just blunt or overly forward. The style really depends on confidence, personality, and how comfortable they feel around you.

[Anonymous]

I don’t flirt with anyone.