What does "I'm not looking for anything" mean?

[centrestriker]

I met this girl like last week. Really cool, we danced, we kissed a little bit. She gave me her number. The next day I called her and asked her if she wanted to go out, both of us were busy until tonight so we set the date for tonight. Then randomly last night we both ended up at the same party. She tracked me down and we danced and made out abit. Tonight we met up and went to a trendy little martini place downtown. Each of had a drink and split some calamari. afterward, she told me that she "isn't looking for anything and feels bad for leading me on"... WTF does that mean? Any way about 20min later, I walked her to her car. And she kisses me. Not once, but several times. I am so confused right now. Any idea what's going on? Am I wasting my time? Or does this girl actually like me?

[ImALuvrNotAFighter]

When she kisses you, that's a good thing. When she tells you "I'm not looking for anything," that's a REALLY bad sign. Inconsistent behavior could mean that she either has low interest or she doesn't really know what she wants. Try asking her out on a second date; if she turns you down or acts really inconsistent on the date, it's probably time to move on.

[NonchalantBro]

probably just wants to hook up... the "leading on" comment may be referring to guys getting the impression that she wants a relationship.

[imsocold25]

That's how some girls act ...it sounds like she wants to have sex with you but doesn't want to come off to easy so she wants you to kinda go after her a little bit by turnin you down but still leavin enough to keep you around

[JackWSmith]

Are you serious? If I heard that, I'd think "Oh she doesn't find me attractive, not enough to date anyway. It's no big deal," and move on. She could accomplish the same thing by waking him wait for sex.

[imsocold25]

How would you get that out of it?not all girls want to be in a relationship. Y can't she just not be ready for one and still want to keep him around for sex it doesn't sound good but I'm sure its been done b4...not something ill do but it happens

[JackWSmith]

I guess because "I'm not looking for anything right now," is one of those euphemisms women use for not being attracted like "My life is really complicated right now," and "I just got out of a really bad relationship" or "I'm just focusing on myself right now." My interpretation of any of those phrases is that she's not interested and she's trying to be nice.

[centrestriker]

lol, you girls are complicated, I kind of thought along the lines of JackWSmith, that is until she started kissing me again... then at which point I had no idea, what going on, but thanks everyone this scenario makes a lot more sense. I'll just see what happens I suppose.

[conniejbaby]

The whole "isn't looking for anything" means friends or friends-with-benefits.

[imsocold25]

If she was tryin to be nice y would she kiss him and f*** with his head...he turn her on