When a guy says he’s not looking for anything serious, what does he mean?

[Anonymous]

He’s not looking for anything serious with you.

He may just not be looking for anything serious right now.

A total of 39 votes were cast: 16 girls and 23 guys. See detailed results

[DrunkAss]

When I said that, it was after some turbulent relationships. I simplified things to just fun and good times after that. I still got married in the end and I liked the serious, but I stopped wanting to led any girl on that I'm dating like we're guaranteed to marry. I got tired of the drama. I was hardly the type into just sex. It's just like I wanted to take it easy and not start off like we're aiming to live together and get married and have kids together.

[DrunkAss]

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[DrunkAss]

It's like I didn't want any broken hearts, you know, not hers, not mine. So I liked the philosophy of "no expectations", and I wanted to say to girls I dated after that this is what I was thinking and open up about it to them before we fell too deeply for each other. One step at a time -- no getting ahead of ourselves. I was trying to make things more about reality than fantasy because people suffer from dwelling in their own fantasies much more than their own realities.

[DrunkAss]

I wanted to base my level of commitment on mutual experience, to put it another way, not get ahead of that. I still ended up marrying my wife, but it's like, unlike my exes, we didn't commit absent the prerequisite mutual experience. So I even told her at the beginning that I wasn't seeking anything serious, at least not in the beginning.

[arlesche]

When I've said this to a girl, it was because I couldn't financially have a serious relationship, but I craved physical/emotional intimacy, so we basically just became friends with benefits, I couldn't afford to really take her out on dates, but we would hang out at my place, and watch movies, and maybe order pizza, or take out. It wasn't serious, but it was one of the best relationships I've ever had.

[Siren777]

He isn't looking for anything serious. He doesn't want commitment only to have fun. Believe him when he says that.

[Sincerly_KittyCat]

He is on games and dont waste your time. Only wants to stick his peepee in you.

[Finchie40]

That he isn’t ready for a commitment that he just wants to stay single and play the field not being tied down to one person , he might of just got out of a relationship and just wants a break

[Lliam]

It could be that he's being up front about not wanting to settle down at this point in his life.

[Daisychains11]

Doesn’t matter, just walk away
Probably more likely a

[Thedivinechic]

Waiting for the right one while wasting your time. Simple.

[Radio4men]

Stop thinking like a girl men don’t talk in riddles we mean what we say.

[Wise4myage]

He's most likely just looking for casual sex with no commitment.

[SamFromFL]

Don’t expect him to stay with you after you have sex

[anylolone]

Depends, usually it means he's not looking for anything serious for the forseeable future.

[Anonymous]

He wants to have sex with your body and he doesn't want you to talk during it, or after it, or before it

[Daisychains11]

Wtf..

[Opinion Owner]

@Daisychains11 Does he have a lot of ball gags around the house?

[Daisychains11]

Are you high

[Opinion Owner]

@Daisychains11 Hi

[boggboss]

He is looking for fun

[jimmy2]

He just wants sex and goodbye

[Anonymous]

Probably not ready for a relationship