How to start holding a girl's hand without making it awkward?

[Anonymous]

How to start holding a girl's hand without making it awkward? I'm kind of an awkward guy.

[wtfbbq]

when walking side by side, walk close enough to her that your pinky fingers brush by a few times, then just casually hook your pinkies after awhile and then a few steps later grab her whole hand ;P

I think awkward hand holding is when it is very obvious and planned, it should be more of a natural, "oh appears as though the universe wants my hand to be connected to yours" *grab* type things :)

[Asker]

what about holding her hand to walk across a semi busy intersection? I think I would try that and keep holding after we get across, would that seem awkward?

[wtfbbq]

no that would be cuteeeee

[Asker]

ok should I just not say anything while I hold her hand act like its normal then lol?

[wtfbbq]

yes, don't mention it , you don't even have to make eyecontact or look at her, just grab her hand it basically speaks for itself :P I think this works well, it you are walking around and get separated at one point, hold your hand out to her as she is walking up to you and smile :)

[Asker]

cool thanks!

[TheoryOfAvarice]

Well if you're walking with her it's pretty easy to just get close to her and let your arm/hand brush against hers. Chances are she'll get the hint and it won't be so awkward (:

[helpha]

Just scoot closer and "accidentally" brush your hand on hers, then link your fingers with hers and smile at her.

[ElijahCynicism]

I just held a girls hand. Like, right there now, when I saw the question. We concurred it wasn't awkward.

IT DOESN'T SEEM

TOO DIFFICULT

[Hopcount]

Make sure you don't stare at her hand or anything. Nonchalantly do it or else it will be awkward.

[Anonymous]

Aww :P

When walking with each other, just reach over and slightly hold her hand.

[hammylemonade]

Well first, asnwer this - does she like you too?

[Asker]

yeah

[hammylemonade]

Just when you're talking to her grab it and start playing with her fingers. if you're walking, bump into it once and just interwine your fingers with hers.

I remember this boy did it another way to me beofre though: I asked him where a class was, and he was like, "here, I'll show you, but you have to grab my hand first." and he lead me to my destination.

since she likes you, you should have no problem whatsoever.