Girls do not need social-skills, conversation-skills, people-skills, confidence, being funny, people skills (Page 2)
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not really... there are unattractive girls who always get the hot guys because of their personality...
don't know what to say
Its easy for hot girls.
You think its easy for ugly girls?
sadly true
really?
Yes really genius
debateable
O RLY?
something in my mind tells me it is, another part tells me it is not
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Yeah. Men need to have stuff going for them. women need to be young (fertile)
doesn't make sense as to why we need to have stuff going for ourselves
It makes perfect sense.
Women -can- all have children from the same father if he's the only one with attractive genetics. Men need to find their own not-pregnant girl. And for most of evolution, that was risk free for men. You get -any- female pregnant and if a better one comes along, great. For women if they got pregnant by some loser and then a better male came around, they'd have wasted that chance.
are you venting or something?
yes I am, pissed off on how much easier it is for girls because we guys have to work on ourselves way more
So wait. You just said guys have to work on themselves so much more? We will assume you are correct and girls can be mute morons and just look good. Even if that was true looking good is not easy for women. The competition to look good is enormous and women are starving themseves and creating eating disorders all the time for themselves. You have contradicted yourself a few times but that is fine.
well it's easier to pull people with your looks than with your words
That's natural selection at work. Guys who cannot attract women die off without reproducing, thus cleansing the gene pool. We don't get to complain, because, really, who cares?
i guess that is Darwinism at work here
Thus, you have two options.
1) Adapt yourself to your surrounding climate.
2) Do nothing and stop bothering others with your asinine complaints.
i totally totally agree...especially if your doin mech engineering and there are like 150 guys and barely any girls to be seen...its much more brutal lol
exactly
Its true they can attract plenty of guys but not keep them.
Feel better now that you got that out?
If you're willing to settle for someone who just looks good, that's your choice. Sounds idiotic and desperate to me.
why is it good to have standards?
why does personality matter to girls so much?
Ok, that's really self centered and sexist. Not true at all.
how is it not true?
Because you're pretty much saying that every woman is an air-headed bimbo, that we don't need brains to get a man. Stop complaining, would you? Be happy about the women who will like you and accept you for who you are and stop worrying about the few money-hungry and 'socially-awkward' women. You are totally exaggerating and you know it.
They are exaggerating and they do know it. They just need to feel right so they will not have a valid reason to be a real man. Nice answer and great comment-pretty sad that the pathetic weirdos took the time out from their video game playing to downvote you.
Thank you 7gnat, at least someone has common sense.
why should I be happy about the women who will like me and accept me for who I am?
Ummm, because they like you? lol
well they will be liking me for reasons I dislike
Isn't that how most relationship are suppose to be? they like and accept you for who you are?
well I don't like how they have to judge men on my character, attitude, confidence, masculinity, etc.
You're reasons make absolutely no sense to me. Obviously, they'll be with you for who you are, or they won't. Common sense.
it's easier to be visually, physically appealing to someone than it is to be mentally, socially, verbally appealing to someone
I disagree. If I see a man who is good looking, but I find he has a disgusting cocky attitude, I won't give him the time of day. Although you do have to be sexually attracted to your partner, it's not what's most important in a relationship. your personality is always going to be what holds you two together, not your looks.
thats what I mean, even if a guy is good-looking but he has no confidence, has no leadership, immature, is boring, has no life, too predictable, has no boundaries, has no other priorities, he is a loser to girls
Thats not what I said. Cockiness, is what I can't stand. Why don't you stop complaining and just put yourself out there? everyone gets hurt, but it's worth finding the right person.
well you are a different, for many girls cockiness is mistake for confidence, that's why bad-boys get the girl
Ohhh, no no no. I know the difference between cockiness and confidence. Bad boys usually get the easy women. Cockiness is a guy being an ass.hole. BIG difference.
a guy has to be fun, exciting, unpredictable, even if he wants to attract easy girls
and there are many attributes that men like about women too. we're not all lifeless and dull like you say.
yeah but women expect, require more attributes in men than the other way around, but still, women apparently are attracted, expect traits in men that men do not expect, require in women
Well, obviously. we are two different sexes, one doesn't expect the same from a woman that you get from a man.
yes, that is true, guys have to work on themselves more, and I don't like it
No, you are wrong. Guys don't have to work on themselves any more than women do. You need to stop complaining and being so simple-minded.
how do women have to work on themselves?
are you serious right now? you really think that all women just sit around blank minded doing nothing, and can still get a man? its obvious you are wrong.
I go to college, I workout everyday, I have therapy and meditation because I care about my mindset in life. I do these things because they make ME happy and to feel good. NOT for attention from a man. Stop. Being. So. Negative. PLEASE :)
well yes all girls just have to do is wait, they don't need to initiate anything
The only time I've ever been with a man is when I have initiated it.
you sure?
Hmmm let me check...yep.
did it turn out great?
Currently with him, so yes.
well that is nice to hear
Not true.
Stop your bitter bitching.
how do girls need social-skills, conversation-skills, people-skills, when they are not the ones approaching guys? asking them out?
Get over it.
duh!, I'm just asking where is the logic in girls needing social-skills, conversation-skills, people-skills in order to attract a guy? Hello, duh, they don't have to start a conversation first or keep it alive
Stop your whiny ass bitching.
Sorry, but I'd be more open to actually listening to what you have to say if you didn't express yourself in such a whiny "poor me" accusatory manner.
lol, classic girl answer "I don't like this so it's wrong."
Quadrophonic73, I didn't say I didn't like it nor did I say it was wrong. I said the QA would have better luck getting a good answer out of me if he knew how to express himself without whining and moaning like a complaining bitch. Don't put words in my mouth. Guys who come to GAG and b*tch about their issues with women are pathetic.
They are pathetic. thumbs up to you. They want to waste all this time crying and complaining instead of finding ways to improve themselves. What's wrong with just going out there and trying and trying? GUYS-go out and ask 500000 women out. YOU WILL get one. If you know that you are beat then you WILL lose. You lose before you even step out the door. IF MEN KNEW-YES KNEW THAT WOMEN WOULD LIKE THEM then they would have a chance. Instead they go out KNOWING they will be rejected. Thus this question!
thanks 7gnat :)
Anytime. I am always trying to help these boys (yes boys) and they keep up with all this boo hoo crap. getting sick of it.
it's counter productive. Instead of sitting around blaming bad guys and girls who aren't interested in them for them being single, they need to be finding what it is in themselves that females are not attracted to. If you are all that desirable, no one can take away everyone from being attracted to you.
Wow well said -sorry but I am stealing " If you are all that desirable, no one can take away everyone from being attracted to you" lol excellent statement
LOL, at least you're honest about it rather than people who just steal what they heard and try to take credit for it as if it's their's when half the time, they're not intelligent enough to come up with the statement on their own
guys have to work on themselves more than girls in order to make themselves desirable, like a girl can be a loser, but a guy can't
Not true. Instead of obsessing over this false, silly idea, why don't you just revise yourself?
how is that not true?
there are girls like that who can't get a man,
pisses me off
fine, continue to waste your time and energy being pissed off and immature as can be, whining and ranting instead of getting off your ass and raising your attractiveness.
@ update, when you're mature and open enough to actually take real advice instead of just being whiny, then maybe people will want to help you out.
I love this conversation haha. Totally agree with you, answerer. I for one wouldn't date the question answer - no one likes someone who complains all day and blames it on the other person!
Oops, question *asker*
blaming people for your own problems is frown upon in guys more than girls
Your a rude fucking c*nt and I hope u learn to not be such a b*tch to men venting about the unfairness in the dating game. See this is why men are fucking mad dude cuz they say how much his is unfair and all women can do is invalidate them. Just saying
i completely agree
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evolution, biology is the reason for this
Nothing new here.