So, he farted in front of me...

[Anonymous]

I liked this guy at the gym, & he obviously liked me back. When we were talking he said "excuse me for a sec" took a couple of steps back & farted.

What the hell. That is rude. You don't do that to a girl you're JUST GETTING to know. I was repulsed. The moron still flirted with me but I've lost all interest.

He seemed kinda piggish from the start anyway, but the fart affirmed it. I was physically attracted to him, but too mentally repulsed now to feel any attraction.

Am I wrong for feeling this way? Is it not normal? Guys, what's your thoughts on a man who does to a woman he's just starting to get to know?

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+1 y

Oh really. How would you guys feel if a girl farted when you hardly knew her? Would it turn you on? You'd think she has no class, or maybe a few would find it funny because guys like that type of humour.

[saragee27]

Omg that's the funniest thing ever. It is strange to let one rip so early but hey! at least he's comfortable around you, right?

Funny story actually, when my mom first met my dad they were driving in his car.. and my mom farted quietly and casually rolled down the window. My dad looks at her with disbelief and says "Shirley, did you just fart!?" and she just burst out laughing. When I ask my dad about it he says it was the cutest/funniest thing ever, and was one of the things that initially attracted him to her (her casual nature and sense of humour) So not everyone finds it repulsive =)

[Asker]

That is funny. It's just so early on we hardly know each other. It's not appropriate, he could have went to the bathroom.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

I bet if you did that sh*t he'd be all turned off and no one would question it. That sh*t is just gross. I could see if yall have been married for 3 years but you were in the getting to know you stages. He seemed piggish anyway and your suspicions were correct. He is piggish. I'm turned off just by reading it so I can understand how you feel lol

[Asker]

Thank you. Exactly. It's all these damn double standards.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

You're a girl on GAG. You're supposed to make concessions for everything a guy does. He can't be wrong and you can't get mad or be turned off or else you're a bitch.

[Anonymous]

If you're just getting to know him that was a poor move on his part. If you were boyfriend and girlfriend then you can deal with a fart since you're comfortable around each other, but yeah... otherwise that's just not okay. It's no different if he did that in an important meeting for instance.

[Asker]

Exactly. You are probably going to get best answer.

[BlindFaith]

I'm reading most of the guy's comments and I completely disagree!

I would never fart in front of anyone, whether I liked them or not! It's just plain rude. I'm very comfortable with people and I never fart around them. If I really have to, I would be as discreet as possible!

You're not wrong for feeling that way. It's disgusting. If he didn't feel or look embarrassed, then that's his usual habits. You've just got to decide if you want to be with that.

Imagine if you were with him, and he did it in public. How would you feel then?

[Camilus]

He didn't dust the dude on the bench behind him did he? ...that would be grounds for an ass kicking.

[Anonymous]

This is a thing that my roommates and I do with each other. Sometimes we do the old “pull my finger” bit for comedic effect but usually we would just say “hang on a minute” and hold up a finger and fart. It’s obvious, though. Like we’ll all be walking down a staircase and one of us will just be like “wait,” bend over slightly, hold up their index finger, fart LOUDLY, and sigh. In the setting of a gym, it’s like ten times more natural because we’re exerting ourselves and female bodies don’t like exertion without expelling something. I’ve actually done exactly what you described while talking to guys I like in the gym. Sometimes I’ll say “excuse me” or “hang on,” step away, and fart. Often I’ll just fart mid sentence and not mention it if they don’t. Guys either don’t care or they find it funny, especially when a girl does it.

[ShesSoSilly]

I wouldn't really care, its a natural body function and if it has to come out would you of preferred he left the room all of the sudden without a reason and then came back? At least he stepped away from you lol... Now if he was the type who thought it was funny to do it literally on you, I would think he's piggish and has no boundaries.

[Asker]

It's very early on. He should have went to the bathroom. He could have even send he needs to use the restroom. Who cares if its natural? So is peeing & pooping, but they are offensive & unhealthy so you go to the potty. You don't attract a mate farting within a couple of meetings.

[ShesSoSilly]

Yeah I do think it was poor timing on his part but at the same time I personally would overlook it and that's all I can say really is what I personally would do. I'm not to say who is right or wrong or if your feelings are wrong you know..you are entitled to your feelings and opinions(:

Maybe I would feel the way you do if he was always doing that early on, but if it was just the once no biggie to me.

[Asker]

Its all good :)

[calialltheway1993]

Hahaha that's gross! I feel bad for you. I don't care how comfortable he's around you, you don't fart in front of someone you're flirting with and just getting to know. Bleh.

[Anonymous]

omg. lmao. sorry. I don't know if I would laugh or be grossed out. maybe it was really bad and he couldn't hold it to go to the bathroom? was it loud, or did it just smell?

[Asker]

It was actually loud with no smell. Maybe he's a catch then with those scentless farts :D ?

[Opinion Owner]

lmaoo...sorry, that's just too funny.

[Betwyn]

It's not about what is wrong or right..

It's about what is right for you..

and now, you know he isn't.

[ArrograntWarrior]

You shouldn't be overacting,at least he excused himself rather than letting it out on your face out of the blue,this man should be awarded the "Gentleman Of The Year" award.

[Asker]

I have NO problem with farting, but if you're just getting to know someone have some damn class & excuse yourself. It's an offensive bodily function. You don't poop in front of a woman nor should you fart, go the bathroom. When you're a couple for some time by all means dutch oven it up.

[ArrograntWarrior]

Poor fella doesn't want to keep you waiting while he release the fart in the bathroom,Have some mercy,He just farted he didn't kill a kitten or something

[ctrubov]

He was probably just as embarrassed by it as you and at least he is comfortable enough with you to not try to hide it...also fyi a lot of protein and supplements make people gassy js if you are looking for a guy who never farts good luck

[Asker]

I have NO problem with farting, but if you're just getting to know someone have some damn class & excuse yourself. It's an offensive bodily function. You don't poop in front of a woman nor should you fart, go the bathroom. When you're a couple for some time by all means dutch oven it up.

[gonyr]

he must feel really comfortable with you

[jay6994]

lol, this is just a funny post in general.

[tiredofwaiting]

That is hilarious honestly!

[Anonymous]

omg lmfao!