So when I was moving, he asked me if I needed help and I said that it would be great that in exchange, he and his friend could stay at my place until they were able to move into their new place, I would take care of all the food and stuff and then I would also help them move their things as well. So anyway, it turns out that after that happened, he went behind my back and told everyone that I'm this crazy girl who's in in love with him and forced him to help me move my stuff...never mind that I helped him as well. I didn't hear about this until tonight.
It's made me think of all the other insensitive things he's done, like when I helped him find an ATM so he could get a cab home and we ended up in an abandoned mall; we sat and chatted and then he casually said, "if we were together, this would be the most romantic moment of your life, right?" What kind of guy says that to someone who has feelings for him?!
So anyway, I've decided in lieu of all this that I want him out of my life, because he's completely selfish and uncaring for someone who's done so much for him and because he's wantonly teases me about my feelings for him.
So what would you do, would just ignore him and cut off contact, delete him from Facebook, etc. Or would you confront him and tell him that he's a despicable person for doing that to someone who didn't deserve to be treated like something to walked on.
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