Guys, if a girl is dressed modestly does it make you want to approach her less? What makes you approach her?

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That's what a friend of mine said. I mean reasonably modest, not a burka or pioneer dress. I mean something like this link link link link link link you get the idea.

The reason I'm asking is because I usually dress a lot like that. You know some dress or skirt with leggings beneath. Not really short all my dresses or skirt end one - 3 inch above the knees. And sometimes jeans with a shirt or long shirt too. I don't really feel comfortable with showing more skin.

I was recently complaining to a friend that I'm having so much trouble finding a boyfriend and he was like "well your not showing enough skin"

I was like wtf. I never even thought about that. But he said I was dressed to modest and guys would assume I'm already taken, so they don't ask me out. Is that true? I had never considered it. He said if I went to school more dressed like this link link link I would have a boyfriend in no time. Really? I wouldn't really feel comfortable wearing those.

Lastly, what makes you want to approach a girl?

I know I'm not totally ugly.I often get told I have a pretty face. I guess I could lose some weight, but it's not too bad (U.S. size 5) and I think I'm not a totally bitch either. I go out, I'm sociable but I've never had a boyfriend. I don't know what but obviously I'm doing something wrong.

In my department (computer science) there are tons of guys. It's in the same building as Math and engineering departments so again tons of guys. I get tons of looks too, but that's it no one ever approaches me. When I try to smile at them they quickly look away.

Guys, if a girl is dressed modestly does it make you want to approach her less? What makes you approach her?
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