She hit it then quit it! HUGE blow to ego or what?

[Anonymous]

Dating for about 3 months... Banged him after 2 weeks then I stopped going all the way with him because in past relationships I've felt kinda used because men have gotten gotten so hooked on sex with me it was like that's all our relationships consisted of at all times, all day everyday ugh... haha sounds weird all typed out but anyways..

What do guys think wen they're dating a girl and they have sex with them once or twice then the girl doesn't have sex with them anymore? I like him so much I'm almost scared to continue the sex part! But I know he has been probably thinking what the hell? It's been a solid 2 months since he's been "in" me but he's still around so do you think he may really like me too? so should I just relax and hop on again!?

AND what do you men think when this happens? a girl like hitting and quitting you? haha

...and how can I stop being such a shy prude ass with this guy I like more than anyone I've ever dated!?!?

HELP! before he reaches for the door! ;)

Updates

+1 y

as the GUY in this situation... how would YOU feel tho?

[Myrrth]

How odd, no sex vs continous sex. I would say try everything in moderation including moderation itself. He likes you and is still around sans sex, you don't want to feel like meat, and you like him. Try making sex special. Make it quality time for him (and you) but not quantity. Keep it fresh and magical (gee that sounds silly). You obviously are in control here so chose a comfort level, perhaps once or twice per week at unpredictable times, that's a rate in keeping with married couples, not sex addicts.

If even a little sex ends up making you feel somehow used then you will need to look within to see what's going on. Lets hope that's not the case, that's rarely an easy or pleasent thing to do.