He flirts but I´ve heard he has a girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

I´ve known this guy for a month and a half and he has always given me the impression that he kind of liked me. However, even though he always seems very eager to talk to me, he hasn´t responded to my latest invitation to study together (or at least he said "great idea, I´ll let you know if I´ll be around school" but then didn´t follow up). His friend (whom I don´t think he sees much out of school though, so not sure how well they know each other) quickly mentioned he has a girlfriend, when referring to his summer plans he said "he has to do this thing with his girlfriend, or something". He said it vaguely, but pronounced the word "girlfriend".

Is there a higher chance that his friend is mistaken, or that I misunderstood all of his signals? How do I find out? I would feel so embarrassed now around him because I started to have a mini-crush on him, but now it turns out I´m a complete idiot! And I swear I would never have developed this mini-crush if it hand´t been for the way he looked at me.

[Bella9191]

all I can say is if he can do it to her he can do it to you. if you found out he did have a gf..would you still actually want him even if you could! I mean when he is with you how would you like it if he didn't make it clear to other girls he had a girlfriend or subtly flirted etc.

And I believe he probably does have a girlfriend. most guys if they are interested in you will persue you. the fact that you sense he likes you, well your gutt is probably right, but the lack of moves on his behalf most likely suggest he has a girlfriend.

so honestly, at the end of the day I wouldn't even bother with him because a) he either has a gf

or b) if he truly was interested in you he would be the one to persue you..not you making all the effort to find out things about you.

this is simply my opinion, I could be wrong obviously lol.

[Anonymous]

Simply don't flirt back.